Would it bother you if your gf was a topless model?

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as title really...I'm currently feeling bothered by it. But she makes a lot of money doing it and I'm not sure how I feel about it at all.

So what do u guys think?
 
Initially I'd feel a bit =-/ but would eventually realise that it's her job and her decision. If she's with you then you should try to get the mentality that everyone who's going to be looking at her in magazines would be very jealous of you.
 
all depends on her personality and mentality towards her job in fairness.

if she was also going out every night with her female mates and living it up being a glamour model then i'd have a problem with it. if it didnt affect that then i'd try and see past it.

having never been in the situation i couldnt say anymore.
 
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But seriously, depends on your relationship, what stage it's at etc. It didn't bother me but I knew it was nothing more than a fleeting thing, I wasn't going to marry the girl. Would you feel comfortable asking her to stop?
 
Depends really on how close and strong your relationship is but then also depends on how you feel about it?. Seems like it bothers you somewhat and in that case i would be speaking to her about it rather than here :p
 
The only reason it would bother me would be knowing that if I didn't treat her exactly right, she could leave me in a heartbeat for anyone else. So the pressure is on to maintain appearance, style, character, and some well-thought discipline. You can't let her walk all over you, but you gotta be sure she knows you're still a man.


edit: Oh, and take advantage of that cash while you can! :D
 
im not really sure how any of us can say really, but i suppose look at this way, shes coming home to you and seeing you, and you have her, so does it matter, if people are looking at her in mags or whatever, but you have her and no one else does...??
 
for me, it would depend on whether or not I met her in a strip club during a £20 dance, or if I met her elsewhere and then found out.

to be honest, i'm guessing she's a looker so have some fun... if it gets more serious discuss it then
 
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...Sorry.

Seriously, I would have a problem with it. I know I shouldn't but deep down it would ring a few alarm bells in my head, weather or not I could get use to it, see past it, or accept it after a while I'm not sure.
 
It would bother me.
Im just the jealous type though :) :(

But couldn't she just get a job as a regular model for women's magazines instead of floppin her tittys out??
 
I don't think it would bother me at all if my girlfriend was a topless model, I don't think my wife would like it though.
 
I dated a stripped a long time ago - the novelty wore off pretty quick - and I never went to see her work (I couldn't face it). I knew what she did before I started going out with her so it was just a question of "could I deal with it". And to be honest as long as she didn't cheat on me and was loyal to me that's all that mattered. However she turned out to have more issues than time out and was a complete bitch - but hey it was fun and that's one thing off my "to do" list I can tick! :D
 
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