Jealousy?

kvfb97 said:
I've known her longer than the friends she's with. I've known her for a year and a half and she's known them for 6months or so. If shes with them she wont text me back, or even ring or anything. if shes with me she would drop everything to contact them.


I know its good, well it sounds good, but i cant help it :(
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have you talked to her about it?
 
Yep talk to her not to us...

Failing that try and look at the situation from the outside as if the relationship was someone elses. Are you acting stupidly? if so then tell yourself that and correct your behaviour.
 
I have tried talking to her about it but she just rubs them off and gets on with her life. If something happens it bothers me and I'll think about it for a few days. She would just forget about it straight away which hurts.

I'm in the middle of an argument with her right now (via email lol) so i'll let you know what happens. Wish It was just ok and she'd listen.
 
This is strange. It sounds like you two have switched roles. Usually it's the female acting like this, and the male being ignorant..
 
Jelousy comes from your own insecurity.

Usually something from childhood, or in my experience, i think it can actually be passed to you from a parent.

My moms been very jelouse, nervous and insecure person and i'm exactly the same.

If i know my GF has been talking to some guys on a night out, i get a bad jelouse feeling in my stomace. I cant stop that feeling even if i know nothing happend/is going to happen.
 
I don't think I've ever been jealous of anything. I'm happy with what I have and if I haven't then there is a good reason why I haven't and if I really want it bad, i'll do something about it.

I wouldn't call "girl friend cheating or chatting up some blokes" jealous tbh.. That would come under as Anger..
 
Camalot said:
Jelousy comes from your own insecurity.

Usually something from childhood, or in my experience, i think it can actually be passed to you from a parent.

My moms been very jelouse, nervous and insecure person and i'm exactly the same.

If i know my GF has been talking to some guys on a night out, i get a bad jelouse feeling in my stomace. I cant stop that feeling even if i know nothing happend/is going to happen.
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I THINK it came from school. I never had the chance with any girls because they didn't like me, and even if I did get the odd chance my friends would either push them away or take them away themselves.
 
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