Oh dear.
Quite a valid opinion I feel.
I attempted to complete the books before the film came out (A year or so?), and despite trying very hard, it remains the only book or series of books that I have left unfinished (2/3 of the way through). Now, I'm not a huge bookworm, but I love tucking into a good read. Despite so much promise, the books were hugely dissapointing to me. Tolkein didn't seem too interested in taking the reading anywhere, his writing was dull and he didn't seem to care for what the audience might want. Which is fair enough, its his books, but for me and many other it made it a very
very boring read.
Some of my friends who find the book series fantastic admit that each book, or indeed each chapter itself, is a bore. It is only when you can sit back and appreciate the huge world that has been laid out before you in painstaking detail when you can view this epic tale in awe. Long books do not have to be dull (John Irving does a few fairly lengthy reads), but they should be entertaining throughout, or at least show some carrot for the donkey to follow.
So where does this leave the films? They managed to entertain, excite and leave the audience gasping without having to focus hard or skip needless songs, or fumble around with minimal plot advancement. As such, I agree they are very good and better than the books.
The books themselves I draw an analogy to a late Radiohead album (Kid A). Theres some really good stuff in there, but it takes time, it takes hard work. The result is ultimately rewarding but.... sometimes you really just can't be arsed.