broke up with gf, bought pc gear

hardc0re_tid

hardc0re_tid

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nothing to do with buying pc gear but i thoguht it would help cheer me up.

broke up due to her not having the 'same feelings' for me anymore, yea right, cover story for her cheating on me with her ex boy!

we have a daughter, 10 months old. the pain is down to the fact that i wont see her as much anymore, (her and the gf lived with me and my family, up until this morning) i would have come home from work and she would be straight over to me. i can feel a lump build up in my throat as i write this. :mad: to be honest i didnt have feelings for her a while back, i just pottered along and stayed togther for our daughters sake. she has also told me that she had lost feelings a while ago but done the same as me and stuck it out. you dont know what youv'e got til its gone!

this is the girl that i loved with all my heart, i still do to some extent, thought we would get married, she asked me, we were nearly getting a house together. i dont want to beleive she cheated but its infront of me here and black and white, broke into her bebo and there it was sitting infront of me, a very long convo with him and her. printed it out and showed it to her, she said it all happed a long time ago, er sorry 3 days ago with the words 'yesterday' and saturday night' in amongst it all.

so now i have went and bought a q6600, 8800gtx, new psu, more ram
 
Sounds like it is for the best, you said yourself you were "pottering along". Keep your chin up and make sure the little un doesn't suffer from the break up.

Grab yourself the Team Fortress 2 beta whilst you're at it, that'll help.
 
I'm confused as you say you lost your feelings for her and you were only in it for your daughters sake (which is stupid imo) but then when she says she doesn't feel the same about you anymore, you now love her? or not? if you don't why is this such a huge problem?

I'm a bit confused.
 
divine` said:
I'm confused as you say you lost your feelings for her and you were only in it for your daughters sake (which is stupid imo) but then when she says she doesn't feel the same about you anymore, you now love her? or not? if you don't why is this such a huge problem?

I'm a bit confused.
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as i said, you dont know what you've got till its gone. really gone, we will not be a couple again, yes i still feel for her, we were going out for nearly 2 years, pretty much had our life planned out, but maybe dont love her, but still care for her...... my head is so far up my rectum atm i dont know whats what
 
gary996 said:
Well done for getting some good pc gear
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yea, we had agreed that i wasnt allowed to buy anything till after xmas, **** her, were not a couple no more, i have money put away for the lil one and the gf isnt getting a penny of it. when i asked her how much do you want financially for her and the wee one she said 'i dont want your money', i asked how will you provide for her, she said 'i just will, dont worry'

kadie, my daughter will be given the money on her 18th bday. x amount of money will be going away each month, i will buy and provide for her as and when she needs things, i will buy them, no money will be given to emma, the gf
 
hardc0re_tid said:
she told me she didnt want any, so until she changes her mind, no money will be sent her way
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She'll change her mind. What is it, 40% of your income?

Sorry to hear that. That's the trouble with trying to settle down and create a family when you're too young.

For your daughters sake, set your differences aside from the ex and move on with your life. Things can only get better, eh?
 
Moses99p said:
hmmm, if she changes her mind again you'll have to pay.
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well untill she does im quids in and kadies piggy bank gets bigger and bigger

she says i can see her how and when i please and i can have her at weekends if i want. so if i think she needs new t's or shoes ill buy her them, but im not giving emma a penny as it would end up going elsewhere.
 
Scuzi said:
She'll change her mind. What is it, 40% of your income?

Sorry to hear that. That's the trouble with trying to settle down and create a family when you're too young.

For your daughters sake, set your differences aside from the ex and move on with your life. Things can only get better, eh?
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if my maths is correct its about 300 notes
 
The CSA is so screwed it isnt even funny

My dad hasnt paid my mother anything for 5 years

Anyways, best of luck in the future m8 :)
 
cheers all, i just hate the thought of her ex being around my daughter, her parents despise him, he treated her like poo from start to finish of their releationship of appx 1 year, she knew he did but stuck with him, i dont know what she see's in him, her mum will kill her if she even talks to him.

i told her mum what i thought was going on and she said she was really ****** that she was even talking to him, if her dad finds out he will run him over, literally, and for her step mum, well i wont go there!
 
Sounds like a bad time for you, in time I'm sure you'll feel like you did the right thing, no point living a lie.

On another note, the end of your post did amuse me:

hardc0re_tid said:
so now i have went and bought a q6600, 8800gtx, new psu, more ram
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The OcUK way of dealing with emotional turmoil:)
 
That's messed up stuff man. Sorry to hear about it, hope you get through it. Just take it easy and try not to think too much about it.
 
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