Does anyone understand what goes on in a womens head?!?!?!

Soldato
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Reeeeealy does my head in; this is probably why you don’t meet girls on msn... I met a girl around about 5 years ago on msn her name is Katy, I tried meeting her so many time sin the past and she always said yes, but never did, I always asked her to meet me at the Leeds home games as both had season tickets...

Really annoyed me how she wouldn’t, but because I liked her I let it go... anyway, I asked her lots of times to meet me and once I saw her in town n she dived onto a bus... idiot, so I then decided that she was just a Muppet and stopped talking to her, anyway I gets this email saying that she liked me and wants to be friends at least so after months of not speaking to her I unblocked her... now round about aug 05 I moved to Devon and obv from then on it wouldn’t be possible.

We talk on the phone, on msn, all sorts, send pics, always talked on an evening, and she finally fell for me, or so she says... I didn’t have any feelings due to the past I just wanted to meet her, but wasn’t possible, so again, held back my feelings... stopping them before they start. I couldn’t do long term crap... wasn’t possible for me.

At the end of Aug 06 (1 year later) I find myself getting friendly with a very nice girl called Sarah, I got with her and was with her for around a year... until early Aug when I decided I was moving back to Bradford as she was going to uni and didn’t care about anything but her career...

So im back... I had kept in touch with Katy since me and Sarah got together and she didn’t mind that I had a gf; she expected as much, we stayed very very good friends, still speaking, having a laugh, sending bday cards etc... anyway, ive moved back and I decided that we should meet, now she was with this guy at the time of me moving back, I knew she liked him, she had told me about him a few months prior but he was a **** if im honest... complete **** head... he messed her around, cheated on her, finished her for another gurl.

Were both single now…

She still likes him im sure but I cant see why, and now, she just isn’t interested, when we met she was weird, not caring, just wanted to rub it in this guys face that she was out meeting another guy, but I don’t understand why and how she just changed and stopped caring about me, you know im a easy going lad, I get on with anyone, and she just took advantage of my good nature and just doesn’t care no more, anyway, she’s just blocked me... so I think that’s it, I cant be bothered any more, ive tried...

What annoys me is though, ive tried meeting 2 maybe 3 other girls since I got back here, 2 didn’t turn up, 1 cancelled and now Katy doesn’t care... just kind of gets me down and annoyed, shoots my confidence... what goes through there heads? Do they find it funny? Do they not know what they really want? Are they just really inconsiderate?

Just thought id gets that off my chest and out of my head!!

Bloody women....

Peace,

James.
 
Breathe. You've done the most important part, and that is realising that she's not worth your time. In fact, she is totally worthless. You're an easy going lad, you'll find someone. Eventually.
 
the menstrual cycle powers their minds...

they also attract bears.

avoid. at all costs. only approach whilst intoxicated. :)
 
they also attract bears.

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Typical bunch of OcUKers tbh :p;):D
 
Oscar Wilde once said:

"Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood."

Burnsy

Edit: After actually reading your post, I can really sympathise at the moment. I'm being messed around with a girl that I like. She knows I like her and from what I've been told she likes me too, but she's very busy and I just can't seem to get any time to meet up with her. It's highly frustrating :(
 
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