just wtf...... help needed

[stinka]

ok so ive just got in tonight from the pub

i need to share something with you

my sister has had 2 babies with our first cousin





i think that statement is enough to describe the seriousness of my situation

i canot begin to describe what has gone on over the last 2-3 years

i dont speak to my dad, mother or sister anymore. my cousin is ok but i find it hard to deal with him tbh

im a bit drunk 2nite, but i will digress the full extent of what has gone on in due course

i find myself strugleing to deal with the mavity of this situation

in the US it is illegal in 24 states to marry your first cousin (check wiki...)

basically, my initial reaction after the first kid was one of discust, then i got my head round it. then i tryied to deal with the second kid and now i just feel they are a couple of weirdos, like that film deliverence

please help me

is my aborant (sp?) response to this situation ok or am i over reacting

 

[ColdAsIce]

Get over it man theres nothing wrong with having a relationship with a cousin.

 

[KaHn]

incest is best

KaHn

 

[KaHn]

Get over it man theres nothing wrong with having a relationship with a cousin.

lies

KaHn

 

[Fraggr]

Get over it man theres nothing wrong with having a relationship with a cousin.

In quite a lot of places it's totally normal, in fact. But here in the West it is frowned upon (and illegal in some places).

I'd find it weird...

 

[Doohickey]

Lol

 

[McLovin]

Wont these kids have a huge chance os serious disabilities and mental illness due beacuse they are both related.
Or is that a myth (bust that one Mythbusters)

 

[JIM_BOB7813]

Wont these kids have a huge chance os serious disabilities and mental illness due beacuse they are both related.
Or is that a myth (bust that one Mythbusters)

I believe it's an increased chance, but not huge, of genetic disorders.

 

[stinka]

lies

KaHn

cheers mate i thought i was over reacting then...... ffs

 

[stinka]

Wont these kids have a huge chance os serious disabilities and mental illness due beacuse they are both related.
Or is that a myth (bust that one Mythbusters)

tbh there not pretty............

 

[benneh]

I wouldn't have a kid with a cousin personally. But tbh, who rly cares, it's not a direct gene pool conflict lol, and as long as they're happy!, who are you to judge?.

 

[Tefal]

As long as you don't treat the child bad then don't see any problem with how you feel.

 

[KaHn]

cheers mate i thought i was over reacting then...... ffs

with out knowing your background i wont judge but one thing to aide by.


DISTANCE!!!

KaHn

 

[stinka]

come on

ethicly speaking this is ******* wrong

are you all dope smoking students or what ???!!!!

 

[Fraggr]

There isn't a "huge" chance of them having a mental/physical disability. It is double normal children's, but since their chances are something like 1/1000, it'll be 1/500.

 

[Burnsy2023]

Care to talk about why you're not in contact with your immediate family anymore?

Edit: oh and my view on the situation, yes it's a bit wierd, but what's done is done and your sister is still your sister.

Burnsy

 

[Zefan]

are you all dope smoking students or what ???!!!!

I'm a student, but I'm not really cool enough to smoke dope, can't pull it off ya see.

It's wrong, really quite wrong.

 

[paradigm]

I'd be rather disghusted had it been within my family to be fully honest :/

I mean, seriously, with all the other people in the world, why the hell would you "do" your cousin?

 

[stinka]

Sleep with your mum, then the problem we're discussing here won't seem as bad.

roflmfao

 

[KaHn]

Edit: oh and my view on the situation, yes it's a bit wierd, but what's done is done and your sister is still your sister.

Burnsy

whats done is walking and probably talking now and my sister wouldnt be my sister if that was me

KaHn