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Jonny ///M

Jonny ///M

Jonny ///M

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Why do they always go for the bad guy(s)?

Went out last night with my mates but bumped into a girl i knew standing herself who then decided to cling onto me and burst out crying....im like eh :confused: i want a drink!

So he sleeps about,they split up,they get back together,same again,they split up for good...then he's taking her out(last night) and proceeds to F off and kiss another girl!

She's such a nice girl and does everything for him but gets it all thrown back in her face and she always gets back with him. She isnt very confident because of him and doesnt think she can find anybody else when she could find a decent guy within 10 minutes.

I have saw this a few times with different girls and it always gets to me,i have never treated any girl like that and dont intend to!

Dunno what the hell i'm saying now but it just really got on my nerves last night!
 
thats the way they work

they SAY they want a caring and sensitive guy. When one comes their way he's seen as "just a friend". Then a complete and utter prat comes along (who looks nice) and she goes out with him. THEN she complains to the nice guy that the prat is a bad guy.

all women are the same

and they have the nerve to say we're all the same...THATS CAUSE YOU KEEP GOING OUT WITH PRATS FFS!!!
 
rookie said:
thats the way they work

they SAY they want a caring and sensitive guy. When one comes their way he's seen as "just a friend". Then a complete and utter prat comes along (who looks nice) and she goes out with him. THEN she complains to the nice guy that the prat is a bad guy.

all women are the same

and they have the nerve to say we're all the same...THATS CAUSE YOU KEEP GOING OUT WITH PRATS FFS!!!
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Close thread tbh, this guy has summarised it better than I could. :)
 
rookie said:
thats the way they work

they SAY they want a caring and sensitive guy. When one comes their way he's seen as "just a friend". Then a complete and utter prat comes along (who looks nice) and she goes out with him. THEN she complains to the nice guy that the prat is a bad guy.
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I'm in the same situation, except the prat isnt nice, he's off his head on anything usually and no-one likes him in the local area!
 
Ooooooooh this again?

She's 20 but i think he's like her first love and all that nonsense...something like that you need to cut ALL ties rather than fart about being mates n that.
 
malolo said:
There's your problem! You shouldn't look so hard.
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you misunderstand me i think. im not looking for someone for me(though that would be nice). i just mean in general life i havent met a girl who goes for the nice guy instead of the nice prat.

many times ive seen a guy crushed by a girls decision to go for someone else who dosnt like/respect her half as much as the other guy.

i guess girls must just find it attractive in a guy, like he's more alpha that way (im not makin a joke here btw even though i used 'alpha', im tryin to be serious)

and theres nothing wrong with that really, its just that they always complain about him and say how he isnt like the nice guy, yet they still stay with him.
 
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rookie said:
you misunderstand me i think. im not looking for someone for me(though that would be nice). i just mean in general life i havent met a girl who goes for the nice guy instead of the nice prat.

many times ive seen a guy crushed by a girls decision to go for someone else who dosnt like/respect her half as much as the other guy.

i guess girls must just find it attractive in a guy, like he's more alpha that way (im not makin a joke here btw even though i used 'alpha', im tryin to be serious)

and theres nothing wrong with that really, its just that they always complain about him and say how he isnt like the nice guy, yet they still stay with him.
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Same for me but we just gotta be there to pick up the pieces when it goes **** up eh!

Although,there is being alpha and making a girl burst into tears and have me trying to comfort her. Not saying i minded her messing my hair and kissing me on the cheek etc but uh i dunno. Got my own relationship to worry about!

So to conclude,it's what they do?
 
Kell_ee001 said:
Your question answered

Nice guys don't get left behind in favour of "bad boys".
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maybe not, but girls need to stop sending out that message.

you cant deny that most girls SAY they want a guy to treat them right, then when one does they have no interest in them.

better if they just came out and said what it is they're looking for.

(this isnt a personal attack btw, just something ive noticed in life in general)

Jonny ///M said:
So to conclude,it's what they do?
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pretty much
 
rookie said:
you misunderstand me i think. im not looking for someone for me(though that would be nice). i just mean in general life i havent met a girl who goes for the nice guy instead of the nice prat.

many times ive seen a guy crushed by a girls decision to go for someone else who dosnt like/respect her half as much as the other guy.

i guess girls must just find it attractive in a guy, like he's more alpha that way (im not makin a joke here btw even though i used 'alpha', im tryin to be serious)
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Oh ok, I get what you mean now.

The stereotypical 'bad' boyfriend looks as if it's exciting, as if it's something a bit dangerous, not something that will bore them to tears and so it seems like a good option.

By the time they find out that it's not necessarily all it's cracked up to be then it's too late, they think they're in love and they don't know any different to being treated the way that they are.

Some of them will realise that that's not how a relationship should be and will grow up and move away from the bad option. Others won't because they won't have the self belief to be able to do it and so they'll carry on living in that situation and believing what they believed before.
 
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