lol.... so shes already onto you and shes doing exactly what this other dude is doing, ironic isn't it?
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lol.... so shes already onto you and shes doing exactly what this other dude is doing, ironic isn't it?
There's a difference between a guy who'll treat you right and a guy who'll capitulate to every demand. Yeah girls want to be treated right but a bit of back bone doesn't go amiss.
Why do they always go for the bad guy(s)?
Went out last night with my mates but bumped into a girl i knew standing herself who then decided to cling onto me and burst out crying....im like ehi want a drink!
So he sleeps about,they split up,they get back together,same again,they split up for good...then he's taking her out(last night) and proceeds to F off and kiss another girl!
She's such a nice girl and does everything for him but gets it all thrown back in her face and she always gets back with him. She isnt very confident because of him and doesnt think she can find anybody else when she could find a decent guy within 10 minutes.
Have you tried speaking to her and asking her exactly *** she is doing with that tool, might be worth saying what you have written on here to hopefully knock some sense into her.
i have a lack of experience with the opposite sex but it seems it needs to be said...oh...and your sigs filesize is slightly too large
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...and your sigs filesize is slightly too large
Well he's right about 1 thing at least. Sort it out Jonny
I think the answer is right there, some women can become so convinced that they are worthless that they will just keep with the same bloke no matter how badly he treats them. (the thought of being on your own can be more terrrifying)
Apologies, i have had a bit to drink and i fear i shall not be able to get to sleep until atleast 2am which is a bit of a problem because i have to start work at 7.30, so i figured i would pass the time on here instead of trying to get to sleep and failing miserably
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But most aren't that way! Most women grow up and have more back-bone to go after what they want.
Well thank you for sharing but I was saying you are correct, his sig is too big
While we're on this topic..
can i just ask. What makes a guy "exciting" and i mean in day to day life (ie excluding stuff like robbing banks!).
Drinking copious amounts of alcohol and being a bit of a man-****? Because that one seems to be a real hit ¬_¬
can i just ask. What makes a guy "exciting" and i mean in day to day life (ie excluding stuff like robbing banks!).
Drinking copious amounts of alcohol and being a bit of a man-****? Because that one seems to be a real hit ¬_¬
But most aren't that way! Most women grow up and have more back-bone to go after what they want.
Which is why I said some women! (not wishing to start a whole new debate this late at night, but that is why some women stay with men who physical abuse them)
Different things will seem 'exciting' to different people.
I suppose by exciting they mean a guy that has ambitions and actually wants to do things with their life, someone that makes them laugh and is unpredictable.
The reason "Bad boys" seem to get girls is because they're exciting, not because they're bad boys. If the "nice guys" were as exciting then they'd probably get a look in.
The reason "Bad boys" seem to get girls is because they're exciting, not because they're bad boys. If the "nice guys" were as exciting then they'd probably get a look in.
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Hole in 1.
Met Soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo many girls that acts like that. There are exceptions but the ratio are like 95% like what you describe and 5% who can see pass the facade of the idiots alpha males.
I have a friend at the moment, who is so hung up on this guy that lives miles away from Cardiff which is his home town, she lives in Cardiff. He tells her he likes her but don't want commitments because he lives so far away and he doesn't want the heartache if it doesn't work out.
I told her that is just total BS ! He just wants her to be there when he come home so he has sex on tap. She's going "oooh, but we are so good together", "He really likes me"...bah bah, yet he makes no effort to go see her, or even sent her flowers or letters.
Even when i told her what he's up to from day one she just don't see it, I just want to bang my head...........
Another one, a VERY nice girl. Only child, very spoiled but well brought up, went to an all girl private school and very polite...etc. Once told me she likes bad boys...but then don't get it when the said bad boy gets "serviced" by the uni **** at the girl's toilet at the union............
In a lot of ways, there must be some twisted logic in their mind that they can change them. Thinking that is something they can do, may be its all those Hollywood movies. Or its the Neanderthals Caveman thing, they want the Alpha man who are badddddddddddd to the bone.
Another reason may be because girls love attention, and its human nature to want something that they don't have. Grass is always greener on the other side logic, so the more a guy ignores her, the meaner he treats her. She thinks "what am I doing wrong?", and more she wants him. The nice ones that gives her attention and time and energy gets shunt into "Friends" corner, I mean he will always be there, so she won't have to try.
That's my 2 cents anyway.
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Have you tried speaking to her and asking her exactly *** she is doing with that tool, might be worth saying what you have written on here to hopefully knock some sense into her.
i have a lack of experience with the opposite sex but it seems it needs to be said...oh...and your sigs filesize is slightly too large
I spoke to her at the big breakup...saying how she shouldnt remain in close contact with him if she's so fed up with him but you can only say so much before she might think i'm out to split them up etc. She wasn't doing what he was doing with me,just the casual kiss on the cheek and OMG your here!!!!!! havent had someone tell me they love me so much in the last year though! (put that one down to random drunkness though) as she had txt me saying she might bump into me if i was out but couldnt txt back as the club i was in was underground and i didnt have a signal. Think of it as yay i dont have to stand in the corner crying myself...i have someone i know here now.
I'll get a grip with the sig in a sec.
Shame on me.Edit: **** got me already FS!
Im not sure. in the sense "girls like nice exciting guys not nice boring guys"
Or is what Zef said correct? i only ask becuase appearently i fall into the nice boring catagory
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I find you need to find a healthy balance. I can be the nice guy,wants to do something with my life(for which she respects me for) but at the same time she needs excitement which requires something totally different.
This is for a different girl though,not the OP one Julie.
This is for a different girl though,not the OP one Julie.
I'd say Zefan is more on track with this than a lot of other people are.
A lot of girls aren't going to want someone whose idea of a good time is letting them watch TV while they sit and post on overclockers for example. They want someone who has a bit of spirit and a bit of get up and go rather than just letting life pass them by.
It's like I said earlier, they don't want someone who is going to treat them like something they've just scraped off their shoe but they don't want someone who won't show any character either.
A lot of girls aren't going to want someone whose idea of a good time is letting them watch TV while they sit and post on overclockers for example. They want someone who has a bit of spirit and a bit of get up and go rather than just letting life pass them by.
It's like I said earlier, they don't want someone who is going to treat them like something they've just scraped off their shoe but they don't want someone who won't show any character either.