Women. (not a relationship thread)

knip said:
Its not so much "nice" as complete doormat. This might not be the case for all women but id like to find someone who doesnt worship the ground I walk on, and whose life doesnt revolve around me. I want him to have his own interests etc, and not just want to do whatever I want.
It just gets boring. You end up wanting to be nasty to them to get some other emotion out of them than "nice." I want someone who would occasionally go "Oi bird, this is what we're doing tonight and tough doo doo if you dont want to do it"

Looks would have nothing to do with it really, ok so theres got to be some chemistry there, but your looks could get mashed up tomorrow in a car crash so there has to be something left.

But what do I know, im nearly 28 and still single! :D
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This is exackly what I think but inregards woman lol, I've found many woman (in my limited experiance) don't have enough intrests of thier own and I'm depended on to much to provide for their happyniss, it makes the relationship sooooooo stressfull, I know you have to spend time together but they have should have thier own freinds/hobbys as well, /rant.
 
lowrider007 said:
This is exackly what I think but inregards woman lol, I've found many woman (in my limited experiance) don't have enough intrests of thier own and I'm depended on to much to provide for their happyniss, it makes the relationship sooooooo stressfull, I know you have to spend time together but they have should have thier own freinds/hobbys as well, /rant.
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Believe me I do. I cant see where a man would fit in sometimes, because im so busy doing one thing and another, and I like coming and going as I please.
When I was younger and in relationships, my whole life revolved around the man, and I did anything and everything for him. Then I woke up, because men actually dont want that either.
 
Its right, you need to find the balance. On Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays i beat my girlfriend with a hockey stick but on all the other days i cook her delicious meals and give her cuddles. Works for us anyway.

:D
 
[TW]Fox;10322796 said:
Wrong. There are girls out there who appreciate nice guys. You just have to find one. They generally won't be found grinding against random people at clubs.
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idd...tis a shame though, so far every time i think i've found one they do something that proves otherwise

they must be a pretty rare breed
 
D.P. said:
I apparently fall into the boring category, despite beeing very active and sporty. I am a nutter for extreme sports, I ski to the max on mountains most people wouldn't beleive you could climb or ski and I'll do both after a night partying. I play around in the snow park on a snowboard . I rock climb every other weekend in the summer, with a lot of abseiling, repelling. I go downhill mountain biking, 2-3 times a week I go slack-lining in the summer. I have bungee jumped, paraglided, jumped out of planes, and this year I might do a ski base jump and luge. I have done Taekwondo for 5 yeras, jujitsu for 2. Surfed a load when I lived in CA. Some freinds are stunt pilots and I go out with them sometimes tearing about the alps, looking for glaciers to land on for some epic ski descents.

I live fort mountain based adrenline sports

I regularly go out to the cinema, bars and to clubs, salsa dancing, jazz festivals, movie festivals cooking competitions, mountain events, beach BBQs.

I play the guitar (electric and acoustic), played in a small band once, and was a roadee for another band.

I love to cook (my mum is a profesional chief and I was trained by her to cook for weddings) and enjoy fine wine and relaxed evenings. I am also very fond of romantic soirees.

I love to travel and experience new cities and cultures, new sports, new food and meet new people.


I am doing a PhD at one of the top univeristies in the world and have excelent career prospects.



I wouldn't consider myself boring. But I have been told I am a "nice guy", "we shoudl just be friends", "You will make a great husband for a lucky wife", "You deserve someone better than me".
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Maybe you're too busy with everything else in your busy life to pay them any attention and be happy to just 'be' with them. Maybe that's why they don't want to be with you - fine to have around as a mate but not great relationship potential because you have far too much on your plate to fit anyone in. I'd be well bored if I was left on my own all the time while my boyfriend went off and did all that and managed to fit me in when he had nothing else to do. :)
 
kitten_caboodle said:
Maybe you're too busy with everything else in your busy life to pay them any attention and be happy to just 'be' with them. Maybe that's why they don't want to be with you - fine to have around as a mate but not great relationship potential because you have far too much on your plate to fit anyone in. :)
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lol, you really cant win.
if your nice your boring.
if your nice and exciting your too busy.
if your a prat your in there!
 
rookie said:
lol, you really cant win.
if your nice your boring.
if your nice and exciting your too busy.
if your a prat your in there!
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sorry but that's rubbish. My boyfriend has a busy, active life, a good career, is caring, fun and an all round 'nice guy' (ask on these forums, plenty have met him and would agree). It's about finding a balance.
 
kitten_caboodle said:
sorry but that's rubbish. My boyfriend has a busy, active life, a good career, is caring, fun and an all round 'nice guy' (ask on these forums, plenty have met him and would agree). It's about finding a balance.
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Exactly.

If D.P. is going for a girl who isn't remotely interested in any of those things then it's going to be difficult to find any sort of balance in order to have a worthwhile relationship since he does so much but if he was interested in a girl who had similar interests to him then I'm sure he'd be dream boyfriend material. Not saying that they'd have to do all those things together all of the time but they'd definitely have a chance of understanding each other and therefore ticking boxes.
 
markyp23 said:
Maybe if you approached women differently than you would to a potential employer. Just because you do "extreme" stuff, it doesn't mean you aren't boring as sin to talk to (maybe you aren't).
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Your right it does read like a CV, and sorry but I got bored just reading it, you dont need to sell yourself to women like an advert. I could list all the things I do/spend time doing/am interested in but then you'd have probably fallen asleep by the end.
I dont know what the answer is, I just dont think you need to do the whole "hey look at me I do all these exciting things so therefore I must be a really fun and interesting person to be with" either.
 
Well i spoke to her tonight and she seems to have lots of hate for him and that she doesnt care what the **** he does he can **** off with the fat ***** etc!

Although she still says he always find his way back in which is not good.
 
Tell her to have more respect for herself and find someone who does deserve her.
(easier said than done I know)
 
knip said:
Tell her to have more respect for herself and find someone who does deserve her.
(easier said than done I know)
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Well i've told her to do that but she's in the 'nobody finds me attractive' and thinks im just trying to make her feel better when she clearly is a really nice girl.

I'm a no go with her as i went with her mate.....which went sour....and im kinda waiting on some other girl.

I think she needs to work less and go into education and go party....always helps tbh.
 
Sorry guys I had to.

Family Guy said:
Brian Griffin: [to Stewie] You wanna know how to get women? There's only one place to observe.
[outside Quagmire's house]
Brian Griffin: Just watch.
Woman: I am not doing that, Glenn.
Glenn Quagmire: Come on beautiful, keep an open mind.
Woman: You're a sick man!
Glenn Quagmire: Hey keep it down, I don't want my neighbors seeing a fat, old, dirty whore screaming at me on my front lawn.
Woman: Whore?! Well, maybe I should come inside.
Glenn Quagmire: Well maybe you should.
Stewie Griffin: What the deuce? Why the hell would she respond so positively to such a negative comment? Unless ... Brian, do women like it when you treat them like crap?
Brian Griffin: Well I don't know if you wanna be so black and white about it...
Stewie Griffin: WAIT! That's it! Women respond when you treat them like crap. Well, Olivia, prepare to meet a much darker Stewie.
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What girls don't want is a guy that's needy, insecure and basically a whiney little bitch. It doesn't matter how nice you are, if you're boring and needy, you're not attractive to the opposite sex.

PS Don't become a girl's emotional tampon.
 
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