Okay... First of all start by resetting evrtyhing to default settings in your BIOS.
Then, find your RAMs default timings and voltage, it should be on the box you bought or online. While in BIOS Ctrl+F1, go to the tweaker menu, add the necessary voltage and change the timings to manual making them the default ones. The ram frequency shouldnt be higher than 800Mhz, adjust the dividers until you get to 800 or LESS.
The performance enhance feature should be set to standard as well, PCI-E frequency to 100 (some people say 101, dont know why though, had no problems with 100 yet).
Leave al the other voltages to their default settings and enable overclocking, change your FSB to 333.
Go back to the BIOS main screen, find and disable all energy saving features! There are around 3-4 of them i think. Disconnect ALL peripheral devices, only leave your mouse and keyboard connected. Save and exit...
It should be able to boot normally, if there are problems then you should consider opening your case up, and re-fitting everything, especially the RAM modules, and then running memtest for a few hours to ensure stability of RAM. You could try overclocking with only 1 RAM stick as well to check if one of the sticks is faulty.