The versions of 'love'

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friend version? id suggest some getting of grip would be useful right about now. L.U.V isnt even a proper word.

what you're actually saying, is that your GF is jealous because some other woman actually made the effort to spell the word correctly, right?
 
Big ****ing :rolleyes: to the lot of you!

Do you all think that all girls are the same? Do you not think some might need a little bit more reassurance than others? Or maybe that he didn't mind her looking at her phone? No, because you're all too busy looking down on this lass that you don't even know (and haven't heard her side of the story) to give an intelligent response to this thread.
 
Its like writting;

"Dear Person

Happy Birthday

Love Tom."

on a birthday card. If you need re-assurance over something like that you have trust issues and need to sort yourself out before commiting to any sort of relationship.
 
Kell_ee001 said:
Big ****ing :rolleyes: to the lot of you!

Do you all think that all girls are the same? Do you not think some might need a little bit more reassurance than others? Or maybe that he didn't mind her looking at her phone? No, because you're all too busy looking down on this lass that you don't even know (and haven't heard her side of the story) to give an intelligent response to this thread.
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OP asked for thoughts on this topic, and that's what people have replied with.

I agree some peoples replies are not really appropriate, but not everyone has replied with a dim-witted comment.
 
Kell_ee001 said:
Big ****ing :rolleyes: to the lot of you!

Do you all think that all girls are the same? Do you not think some might need a little bit more reassurance than others? Or maybe that he didn't mind her looking at her phone? No, because you're all too busy looking down on this lass that you don't even know (and haven't heard her side of the story) to give an intelligent response to this thread.
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thats touchy. actually i have been there myself, ion the other side no less. circumstances were different however in that it was something my (ex) gf never used to say to guys so in my instance it was totally out of character. especially since the messeage she was supposed to send to her (male) friend ended up arriving at my phone. "...l love you too"......

since we dont know anything else, what would you really suggest? probably better off not replying at all if thats really the case because as it is with these threads, you never know everything?

tbh in real life (out there, you know) girls say it all the time, to their girly friends, to other guys sometimes..its not a big deal unless its out of character.
 
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james.miller said:
tbh in real life (out there, you know) girls say it all the time, to their girly friends, to other guys sometimes..its not a big deal unless its out of character.
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At last! Some thought put into this!

OP, has your GF been like this before or has she just taken expection this time?

And yes, I apologise - it probably was a bit touchy, but I'm sick of all the "OMG! Dump her and nuke her from orbit" **** because oh dear, oh dear, she had the nerve to get upset about something.
 
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At last! Some thought put into this!

OP, has your GF been like this before or has she just taken expection this time?

And yes, I apologise - it probably was a bit touchy, but I'm sick of all the "OMG! Dump her and nuke her from orbit" **** because oh dear, oh dear, she had the nerve to get upset about something.
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..yet the ops girlfriend wont accept the genuine explanation the op is giving, yet expects him to understand her explanation for getting upset?
 
yes and regretted it aftwards of course, its obviously exposed her trust issues though and the fact she doesnt trust the op, saying sorry and just forgiving and forgetting cant be done as easily. Whatever course of action to solve it is up to the OP.
 
She hasnt been like this before but then again its the first time she has seen a text saying 'love' sent to me. I have a few girl mates but none of them say "love you" simply becuase I haven't known them for as long.

The opinion I got was that she thought love was a special word only to be used between us two and no one else so I can understand if she got a little ****ed off after reading that text. I even said to her I would speak to my friend and ask her not to say 'love' in future if it makes her feel awkward. I suppose I just need to prove it to her that it really did mean nothing and that mny gf is the one I truely love and I believe I know of a way to do that, well I hope so lol

Thanks for the comments, both funny and serious :p

That is still swearing - K
 
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you guys having been going out for 3week to a month and you are already saying love? to me thats a bit odd
 
So it is an expection then? Usually they don't say it and out of the blue a girl sent a message with "love"? Must have stood out to her as unusual then.

No doubt once she's calmed down and you've talked it'll be fine :)
 
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She hasnt been like this before but then again its the first time she has seen a text saying 'love' sent to me. I have a few girl mates but none of them say "love you" simply becuase I haven't known them for as long.

The opinion I got was that she thought love was a special word only to be used between us two and no one else so I can understand if she got a little ****ed off after reading that text. I even said to her I would speak to my friend and ask her not to say 'love' in future if it makes her feel awkward. I suppose I just need to prove it to her that it really did mean nothing and that mny gf is the one I truely love and I believe I know of a way to do that, well I hope so lol

Thanks for the comments, both funny and serious :p
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