The versions of 'love'

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Murf said:
You can't use I was just being stubborn or I was too upset to accept common sense as a defence though!

Epic overreactions from females on this kind of stuff is so frustrating. Why is paranoia so rife?
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Don't you start!

Besides, it can be a defense as long as she realises her mistake afterwards learns from it in time :) Do you do that? :p
 
Kell_ee001 said:
Don't you start!

Besides, it can be a defense as long as she realises her mistake afterwards learns from it in time :) Do you do that? :p
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I actually did start, then deleted my entire reply and went for something more diplomatic!

People in relationships rarely learn, or at least rarely change if they've learned. If she freaks out about it now, in my limited experience and opinion, she will forever.

And for the record, I enjoy the simple life. :p
 
Kell_ee001 said:
Don't you start!

Besides, it can be a defense as long as she realises her mistake afterwards learns from it in time :) Do you do that? :p
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That makes it worse in my opinion.

Case Study:

Pointless irrational argument over pathetic subject usually while (and/or because) you are out with your mates.

Crap evening and crap nights sleep.

Her in the morning = "Oh i'm sorry I was a complete and utter irrational asshat last night"

Too late, you already ****** my evening up you asshat.




Been there before and not going there again.
 
Kell_ee001 said:
And I'm sure you're perfect ;)
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I don't believe I said that, and furthermore i'm not sure what a statement like that has to do with this debate :)

However, neither myself nor my current girlfriend feel the need to ruin each others' evenings out or bicker over irrational-non-existant issues, for seemingly no apparant good reason, other than not having the willpower to control our insecurities *gasp* :)

This seems to be very close to your heart Kell_ee001, not a guilty conscience twitching there eh? ;):p
 
Gaijin said:
I don't believe I said that, and furthermore i'm not sure what a statement like that has to do with this debate :)
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You're basically saying you wouldn't forgive someone for making a mistake - people in glass house and all that ;)

Gaijin said:
However, neither myself nor my current girlfriend feel the need to ruin each others' evenings out or bicker over irrational-non-existant issues, for seemingly no apparant good reason, other than not having the willpower to control our insecurities *gasp* :)
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So you're saying neither of you have ever even accidently annoyed the other while out? Had a silly arguement, maybe got too drunk etc... I find it hard to believe tbh.

Gaijin said:
This seems to be very close to your heart Kell_ee001, not a guilty conscience twitching there eh? ;)
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Not a guilty conscience but it's rather close to my heart I guess. I hate people being so unforgiving and lacking compassion. I've probably ruined nights out and I've certainly dated people in the past that have. Even fair to say a lot of people who are just mates have as well for various reasons. Each occasion should be judged deperately though, not with sweeping generalisations. :)
 
I love my mum. I do not want to "stick it in her" (nevermind what Freud says :p )
I love my brother. I do not want to "do the horizontal shuffle" with him.
I love my cat. I don't want to even go there...
I love my wife. She gets upset because I try to "give her one" when she is watching Coronation Street.

See the difference?

If she went through my txt messages I'd get a bit peeved but so far I haven't got any texts from my mates telling me they love me! :(
 
a bit pointless post but Kell_ee you have got it pretty much spot on. You too Sara.

Guys can be just as irrational as us women but of course they'd never admit that :rolleyes:

To the OP: Even if she's just saying "hmmm" she's still listening to you so still explain it and eventually it will get through.
 
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