Why is the guy bad?

Both parties to blame.

Guy for continuing knowing she has a boyfriend.

Girl for even considering cheating.

Both scumbags.
 
I'd blame both parties although the party in a relationship has to hold a bit more of the blame because they are the one who is mainly betraying the trust. However the unattached party has to be aware of the fact that the other party is attached as without knowledge I'd find it hard to blame them. I might also make a slightly different moral judgement according to whether both parties know the partner being cheated on or if it is only one of them, somehow it seems marginally less reprehensible if only one of them knows the cuckolded partner.
 
The guy should feel some guilt in that they have a relationship and he is willingly doing something to harm that, but then if the girl is happily willing to cheat on her boyfriend then its not like their relationship is a good one anyway... girls fault
 
I'd say the Girl and Guys fault. If that happend to a guy, where his g/f slept with another guy and he found out he'd ditch, and wouldn't be to happy.

The girls fault because she's a cheating little bakewelltart.
 
Both, without a doubt, although probably a 60/40 with the 60 being the girl.

Obviously if the girl tells the guy he is single, he is absolved of any blame/responsibility... if a girl ever slept with me claiming to be single and then I found out she wasn't...well...I would probably tell her bf XD
 
geeza said:
many times? Why didnt you learn from the first and record them saying they want it?
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I'm not sure that cheets64 means that it has actually happened to him many times, I suspect he means that he has heard of many such incidents rather than personal experience.

You could always take the step that a famous musician (can't remember who unfortunately) did and take a picture of you and your partner naked in front of the mirror smiling beforehand. Gives you some measure of security at least.
 
if the guy doesn't know the girls boyfriend then its 99% the girls fault

if the guy knows the boyfriend then its more like 60 40 girls fault.
 
Damonic said:
Agree! Why people try to say 1 is more wrong than the other I don't know! Get a grip.
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if the guy does not know the boyfriend then why should he care? he might have met a girl, really like her, he knows nothing about the circumstances of the relationship so whats to stop him? its the girl who should be pulling away.

from the guys point of view he might have met his future wife who just so happens to be in a crap relationship which she doesnt care about becuase she is willing to sleep with him.
 
Glad to see i painted a pretty picture of myself in here.

I'm not totally sure on her relationship status but i shal ask tonight as i do feel bad about it but it's hardly as if i got her really really drunk and took advantage!

I'm well aware of the chances that she did it this time so has done it before and will do it again to me more likely. Who cares? Good times to be had between those two parts.

All i know is had to pretend to be the boyfriend of a girl called nicola so she didn't arise suspision.
 
75% Girl, 25% Lad.

The girl is in the wrong as she was unfaithful, but if the bloke is aware that she's dating someone and still goes through with it, then he's nearly as bad as well. Nobody should do that to anybody else.
 
Jonny ///M said:
Glad to see i painted a pretty picture of myself in here.

I'm not totally sure on her relationship status but i shal ask tonight as i do feel bad about it but it's hardly as if i got her really really drunk and took advantage!

I'm well aware of the chances that she did it this time so has done it before and will do it again to me more likely. Who cares? Good times to be had between those two parts.

All i know is had to pretend to be the boyfriend of a girl called nicola so she didn't arise suspision.
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It's simple. How would you feel about some fella taking your missus home, despite knowing she is with you?
 
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