Why is the guy bad?

Jonny ///M said:
Lets just hope im a bit more mad than the boyfriend............well it's not my fault he's crap is it?

(i dont care how long or what happens regardless,sex is great...so well ya.....)
Click to expand...

What a nice person you are, lets hope the next girlfriend you have isn't getting slammed by other guys eh.
 
Dj_Jestar said:
It's simple. How would you feel about some fella taking your missus home, despite knowing she is with you?
Click to expand...

Bad obviously...no doubt about that.

I still fail to see how thats my fault? Was a spur of the moment very random thing which was fun...I'm 19 and living life to enjoy it. Did the whole omg i love you lets settle down forever a year or two ago and that went **** up so i think i'll enjoy myself while i still can!

If it turns out she actually wants to be with him then well i'll be a bit peeved but had a good time while we could. If it ends up something more i'll come back here and take abuse about how she will probably do the same to me etc.
 
Because you are willfully doing something that will cause misery for someone else (unless it is an open relationship.) How can you not see this? :confused:
 
Dj_Jestar said:
Because you are willfully doing something that will cause misery for someone else (unless it is an open relationship.) How can you not see this? :confused:
Click to expand...

Well if she's unhappy in the first place.....there must be a reason for that.

I would love for her to say she was gonna end up it with before we became anything but i dont even know how far it's gonna go. As i said,we'll see.
 
Jonny ///M said:
Well from a discussion at work it was decided that if a guy met a girl and found out she had a boyfriend but still ended up sleeping together,then the guy was bad for doing it?

The guys basically said to the girls if you were the girl and a guy turned round and said they wouldn't sleep with you because you have a boyfriend the girl would feel rejected but the girls say the guy shouldn't bother as 'it's bad'.

From what i see it's up to the girl to choose wether or not she wants to rather than the guy.

Having been in the situation very recently i would not have done it if she didn't want to but she did so how is it any problem of mine that she has a boyfriend? We were both not very drunk and could think straight so...ya.

So boys and girls is it all the guys fault,the girls or both parties?

(sorry for such a crap thread):o
Click to expand...

both are at fault, although the guy to a lesser extent. (given his obligation to her boyfriend is less than her's)

70:30 ratio.
 
Jonny ///M said:
Well from a discussion at work it was decided that if a guy met a girl and found out she had a boyfriend but still ended up sleeping together,then the guy was bad for doing it?

The guys basically said to the girls if you were the girl and a guy turned round and said they wouldn't sleep with you because you have a boyfriend the girl would feel rejected but the girls say the guy shouldn't bother as 'it's bad'.

From what i see it's up to the girl to choose wether or not she wants to rather than the guy.

Having been in the situation very recently i would not have done it if she didn't want to but she did so how is it any problem of mine that she has a boyfriend? We were both not very drunk and could think straight so...ya.

So boys and girls is it all the guys fault,the girls or both parties?

(sorry for such a crap thread):o
Click to expand...
If I was the guy, I'd probably sleep with her if I was attacted to her... but she wouldn't exactly be girlfriend material tho would she?
 
Jonny ///M said:
Well if she's unhappy in the first place.....there must be a reason for that.

I would love for her to say she was gonna end up it with before we became anything but i dont even know how far it's gonna go. As i said,we'll see.
Click to expand...
Well, you should really wait until she has ended before it starts.

Also, as pointed out above, how can you trust her, knowing she doesn't seem to care that much about seeing others?
 
Jonny ///M said:
Well from a discussion at work it was decided that if a guy met a girl and found out she had a boyfriend but still ended up sleeping together,then the guy was bad for doing it?

The guys basically said to the girls if you were the girl and a guy turned round and said they wouldn't sleep with you because you have a boyfriend the girl would feel rejected but the girls say the guy shouldn't bother as 'it's bad'.

From what i see it's up to the girl to choose wether or not she wants to rather than the guy.

Having been in the situation very recently i would not have done it if she didn't want to but she did so how is it any problem of mine that she has a boyfriend? We were both not very drunk and could think straight so...ya.

So boys and girls is it all the guys fault,the girls or both parties?

(sorry for such a crap thread):o
Click to expand...

If a girl has a bf and wants to sleep with the lad then it's the girls fault. A Lad would sleep with just about any female anyway so the female might just want abitta TLC! nothing wrong with that is there?
 
Jonny ///M said:
Better than most other stuff i've came across(not literally,obviously)! She's eh,good where it counts;)

Last girl i encountered that had a bf but wanted me had a face like jaws,apparently,but she looked good when i was lashed!
Click to expand...

lmao, other stuff youve come across..

"Doable", then thats all that counts

:p joking of course :cool:
 
Jonny ///M said:
Thank you! :D

I don't really care what many people on here just it was discussed at work as me and another guy have done this and a girl whos is my brothers girlfriends wee sister thought it was actually the biggest crime in the world.
Click to expand...

Nope, its not and nor do I care. You seem to have some pretty serious emotional problems however looking over your previous threads in GD to do with women. I suggest you get out more :)
 
Nathan said:
Nope, its not and nor do I care. You seem to have some pretty serious emotional problems however looking over your previous threads in GD to do with women. I suggest you get out more :)
Click to expand...

Why thanks for the advice. I get out quite a lot EFFF WHY EYEEEEEE so much so my bank account hates me.

Aw come on ffs live life for a change? Maybe when im 21 - 23 i can think about being sensible and decide to settle down safe int he knowledge the mrs is getting done by some other guy:rolleyes:

(If a mod would like to lock or delete this thread if they would like.....or keep it open to remind people how much of a **** i am)
 
Jonny ///M said:
Well from a discussion at work it was decided that if a guy met a girl and found out she had a boyfriend but still ended up sleeping together,then the guy was bad for doing it?

The guys basically said to the girls if you were the girl and a guy turned round and said they wouldn't sleep with you because you have a boyfriend the girl would feel rejected but the girls say the guy shouldn't bother as 'it's bad'.

From what i see it's up to the girl to choose wether or not she wants to rather than the guy.

Having been in the situation very recently i would not have done it if she didn't want to but she did so how is it any problem of mine that she has a boyfriend? We were both not very drunk and could think straight so...ya.

So boys and girls is it all the guys fault,the girls or both parties?

(sorry for such a crap thread):o
Click to expand...

having just been cheated on i can honestly say with authority that providing the guy new about the other half then they are both as bad as each other, your gender doesnt come into it. if the single person did not know about the partner then there should be no blame laid at their feet for doing what comes naturally to us all.
 
Treat other people how you would like to be treated yourself. It's not really that hard to work out now is it?
 
Jonny ///M said:
Bad obviously...no doubt about that.

I still fail to see how thats my fault? Was a spur of the moment very random thing which was fun...I'm 19 and living life to enjoy it. Did the whole omg i love you lets settle down forever a year or two ago and that went **** up so i think i'll enjoy myself while i still can!

If it turns out she actually wants to be with him then well i'll be a bit peeved but had a good time while we could. If it ends up something more i'll come back here and take abuse about how she will probably do the same to me etc.
Click to expand...

I really would not like to have you as a friend, and if i did, she'd be finished, and you'd have one hell of a smashed up face! :)

I guess no one has morals anymore, i wouldnt sleep with someone who already has a bf, but then i dont just sleep with anyone ..
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top Bottom