views on casual 'arrangements'

[Surfer]

what are your views on having a casual arrangement of basically sex with no strings attached.

where do you find these **** buddies?

the intarent

 

[Spunj99]

Ahhhh, the women always get too attached.

Had to tell the last one to her face that i wasn't interested in a relationship, and it spoilt the night out, so i went home at 10pm...

However, she turned up at my door 5 hours later and the "arrangement" carried on for a few more weeks.

Gotta keep them in their place.

 

[Gilly]

One or both of you will get hurt.

 

[233]

i'm jealous as hell

 

[VeNT]

realdoll?

 

[Indy500]

One or both of you will get hurt.

Maybe thats because some women give sex thinking they'll get "love" back, which at best, is naive.

 

[Gilly]

There may be an opinion that it is only women that get attached in these situations.

Past threads on here and knowledge from friends and acquaintances tell me that isn't the case.

 

[Glaucus]

Past threads on here and knowledge from friends and acquaintances tell me that isn't the case.

was just about to say that. It seems men are much more vulnerable at getting attached. especially with the type of women whos going to have a casual relationship.

 

[_Jimlad_]

for me........starts of fun and no strings, but sex has a funny way of bonding people and someone always gets hurt or feels used....

 

[SB118]

where do you find these **** buddies?

the intarent

AOL used to be great for this, you could search the username by location, sex and marital status. Brilliant service

... especially with the type of women whos going to have a casual relationship.

I must admit, i did find that you could easily aim above your grade in these situations.

 

[Spunj99]

was just about to say that. It seems men are much more vulnerable at getting attached. especially with the type of women whos going to have a casual relationship.

Not if you're dead inside.

 

["andy"]

There may be an opinion that it is only women that get attached in these situations.

Past threads on here and knowledge from friends and acquaintances tell me that isn't the case.

listen to that tbh

 

[Angilion]

Not worth the risks, in my opinion. Not worth the physical risks (pregnancy, STDs) and not worth the psychological risks (one of the people getting more emotionally involved than the arrangement warrants).

But each to their own. No doubt some people will think that friendly sex is worth those risks.

 

[Indy500]

It seems men are much more vulnerable at getting attached..

I have to say, I know of very few men in relationships...granted, I haven't been around as long as Gilly, but I haven't seen anything to suggest otherwise. Perhaps its this scummy neighborhood, I don't know. There are plenty of factors involved that can account for the differences we see.

 

[Gilly]

Well that didn't make me feel ancient!

 

[Indy500]

Well that didn't make me feel ancient!

Or, you could have taken it to mean you were wiser with the benefit of more experience...

 

[[TW]Fox]

I have to say, I know of very few men in relationships...

So who are all the women in relationships with then?

 

[Indy500]

So who are all the women in relationships with then?

Nobody, probably lacking decent candidates

Edit: I should add that I don't know the entire population

 

[ZG002]

It will end in tears..

 

[SB118]

Nobody, probably lacking decent candidates

Edit: I should add that I don't know the entire population

But you've been turned down by the portion you do?