views on casual 'arrangements'

Cr0fty · 1 Dec 2007 at 00:13

The best way to not get attached to one is surely to have several

helpimcrap · 1 Dec 2007 at 00:14

sara said:
Can open, worms everywhere...

lmao.

nokinidea - it makes it a lot more interesting on your part though.

i hate women who do that though tbh but from your point of view it was a non-starter i suppose.

Fuzz · 1 Dec 2007 at 00:24

That's the way I saw it and when I found someone I DID want to spend my life with (who was fresh out of a relationship I had my eye on for a while) I called it a day..

Shame the new girl only lasted a few weeks. Messed me up tbh as she was perfect in every way..

I suppose in a way, that was my comeuppance"

Win some, you lose some. It's all the tapestry of life I guess.

knip · 1 Dec 2007 at 09:52

helpimcrap said:
lmao.

nokinidea - it makes it a lot more interesting on your part though. i hate women who do that though tbh but from your point of view it was a non-starter i suppose.

Why the generalisation, its not only women who do that sort of thing?

Stolly · 1 Dec 2007 at 10:14

Just do it.

Worry about all the emotional stuff later on. As long as its just her that gets hurt whats the problem ?

knip · 1 Dec 2007 at 10:17

Stolly said:
Just do it.

Worry about all the emotional stuff later on. As long as its just her that gets hurt whats the problem ?

God I really love your attitude, women must love you
:rolleyes:

Trojan · 1 Dec 2007 at 10:25

Stolly said:
As long as its just her that gets hurt whats the problem ?

What an incredibly pathetic thing to say.

Stolly · 1 Dec 2007 at 13:03

This type of arrangment is by defination a selfish act and is little more than mutual masturbation, if you get up worrying about the other ones feelings it negates the whole point of doing it in the first place.

If you give a jot about her getting hurt, you shouldn't be doing it in the first place.

Muffin` · 1 Dec 2007 at 13:19

How is it by definition a selfish act?

Are all women in futile beings that will no matter what get hurt?

helpimcrap · 1 Dec 2007 at 13:29

knip said:
Why the generalisation, its not only women who do that sort of thing?

i know, but i have no experience of it from men. i intend it to stay that way as well thanks.

Stolly · 1 Dec 2007 at 19:03

[DW]Muffin;10599947 said:
How is it by definition a selfish act?

Are all women in futile beings that will no matter what get hurt?

Because each party just wants to get their rocks off, its not for romantic walks down the beach now is it ?

Fuzz · 1 Dec 2007 at 20:35

It is if you are looking for somewhere secluded

Mephisto · 1 Dec 2007 at 20:39

Stolly said:
Because each party just wants to get their rocks off, its not for romantic walks down the beach now is it ?

What the?

PurpleDinosaur · 1 Dec 2007 at 20:43

Mephisto said:
What the?

Note that his signature doesn't say "Wife."