How am I frightening him? I'm saying he should go and learn how to cook. Asking if he can microwave a sausages isn't really learning anything.
I never said you are, its just you said it was scary that people are asking for help on basic things, then basically just said they should ask for help.
And yeah it is learning something, it telling him that's its safe to reheat meat in a microwave

Yes mum, I know 

