Exactly, i get a lot of people say "are you on steroids cos my cousin goes to the gym and he's half your size"
In my head im saying "Yeah but does he eat pure protein meals? Does he train every other day no matter what, never missing even one train in 12 months? Does he take supplements religeously? Does he train to quality programs known to put on mass?"
The truth is the answer is no, i know tons of people who go to the gym and aren't my size, for some its genetics, for some its diet, for almost all its pure dedication.
But in the end i just say "yep steroids"
It's just easier than spending 30 minutes talking about something the other person doesnt care about in the least and probably wouldnt believe.
The moral? Stick at it and do it for yourself, every time a training buddy lets you down use it as a reason to feel better than them and better about yourself. Because you know what? And as arrogant as this may be, if you train hard and you train well and you reap the benefits, you ARE better than them and you deserve it. The only people who would dispute that are fatter, smaller, weaker and less comitted than you, and lets be honest, who cares what they think