Is anyone's GF an escort?

Totality · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:25

Currently a mixed bag of emotions.

She suddenly sprung it on me saying she was thinking of becoming an escort. She doesnt have any qualifications and is always either unemployed or working for a low wage.

Don't know how I manage to pick them but I never seem to find a "normal" girl. After my last relationship I thought at last maybe I'd found one but alas no.

So what do I do?

1. She has asked if I'd be OK with it. I do photography so could get her a portfolio, website, etc and it pays well and she said she'd share the money with me.

2. Run for the hills as the thought of her taking other guys out makes me feel ill!

The pimp part of me wants to say "Hell yeah in the hood" and go buy a lowrider but the serious side of me feels slightly disappointed as I really like her and would rather she just got qualified and got a proper job!!

So... Votes please. To pimp or not to pimp.

ChoÞÞer · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:27

do not dis a escort!

Darkwave · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:27

If it actually makes you feel ill to think of her out with other guys, you should really say so.

Tefal · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:27

May I recommend some...

Goberpiles316 · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:27

I would not be happy with my GF doing that, but thats me if you dont mind let her do it.

DanTheMan · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:28

Mine's a fiesta.

scorza · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:28

My GF's a Sierra - does that count?

Sorry that's crap lol.

Serious advice - run for the hills mate. Sorry.

platypus · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:28

Depends, any pictures?

badgermonkey · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:28

Depends. Some high class escorts literally do the whole "take you out and chat" kind of thing, whereas there are also the lower class with "other" activities implied.

Ben M · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:28

Yes, just buy yourself a cane, a fur coat, and a big hat.

martinturner · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:29

Tell her to go do one! Have you got muppet written on your head?!?

EDIT: apologies for sharp response, but come on, what if you said it, what normal girl/woman would be okay with it !!

Rotty · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:29

badgermonkey said:
Depends. Some high class escorts literally do the whole "take you out and chat" kind of thing, whereas there are also the lower class with "other" activities implied.

I think the former are very much a minority

Wizzkidy · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:29

I would run, because to be fair I don't want my girl on her knees doing the business with another man (and come on thats what will happen)

Margaret · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:30

Another memorable thread on OcUK.

scorza · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:30

Rotty said:
I think the former are very much a minority

Agree, you ain't gonna pay £££ per hour for a nice chat!

Haiku · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:31

Personally I wouldn't be comfortable with it.

Rotty · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:31

I think ( well hope at least ) that he does understand that escort and prostitute are usually one and the same

Tefal · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:32

Rotty said:
I think the former are very much a minoroty

yeah only absolute stunner's for some rich guy to take to a fancy party, and actually have some class while there.

maybe it's a TEST/TRAP and she wants to see how you react?

da_mic_1530 · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:32

I would be very unhappy if my GF seriously suggested this (i.e not in jest)

Talk it through with her that your not comfortable with it, or at least raise a few concerns, otherwise it'l come back to hurt your relationship

Ukadder · 1 Feb 2008 at 16:33

Tell her how you feel. Personally I couldn't handle my GF being an escort and would let her know that, though Id hope she already knows how I would react.