married women tells me she loves me

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Ive always had a thing for someone I used to work with and we go out quite often as my friends all still work there. A few times getting drunk we have snogged etc and thought nothing about it. she got married 6months ago and has a son. Now weve always both had chemisty but recently its got worse and she texts me during the day saying how much she feels about me and shes confused what to do, she thought she was happy but shes not and only happy when were together.

I feel bad, i wouldnt like to be cheated on so I tend to stop things going to far out of hand on a night out but I really do care for her and i am falling for her. we meet up a few times and have a right laugh together, shes been one of my best friends for a few years but up to recently I cant get her out my mind and i dont know what to do. ive said ill give her some space or back off etc. but she doesnt want me to.

anyway needed to get it out my system.
 
Come on... she has a kid with another guy. Do you really think helping her cheat on her husband is going to make them have a happy household?

Although, she may just find another guy to cheat on him with...

I wouldn't like to be the one to break up their family if it gets found out. It would really play on my conscience.
 
She needs to sort her head out, it's not fair on her husband or her child.

If my wife did that to me I'd be devastated. One thing that I've always asked of her is that if she wanted to be with another person, to let me know first.

I'm not blaming you, she's the one in a relationship. But don't be surprised when (not if) he finds out, he wants your head on a stick.

Think with your brain not ya todger :P

Oh, and are you ready to take somebody elses child on? ;)
 
Having evaluated the situation I have this advice.

Tap that ass and run.

Give her one then run away. Don't get into a relationship with her because she'll just ditch you for someone else in 6 months time. If you only bone her once you can cover your arse with the "I didn't know she was married" excuse when the disgruntled husband finds out, which he will.
 
Having evaluated the situation I have this advice.

Tap that ass and run.

Give her one then run away. Don't get into a relationship with her because she'll just ditch you for someone else in 6 months time. If you only bone her once you can cover your arse with the "I didn't know she was married" excuse when the disgruntled husband finds out, which he will.

/signed
 
When theres a kid involved you NEED to back off.. just imagine yourself as that boy and you'll understand how hurt you'd be to see your mum and dad break away
 
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