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Shoseki said:
Just because you do not screw up this family's life, does not mean it won't get screwed up anyway. Its a fickle world, and all you should really do is understand *who it is that you truly care for* and *making them happy* and not trying to do this sociological guessing game where you tiptoe around trying to please everyone. Because you aren't ^^.
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Well I believe in doing whats right, it don't matter how you word it, my heart and my conscience tells me not good to help break up someones family, yeah it may get screwed up anyway but not by my hands and thats what counts, sounds to me that you've lost faith in doing the right thing.
 
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Part of the reason the World and a lot of peoples lives/relationships are in such a poor state is because of the "Do what you want and screw the consequences" attitude that prevails in todays society. :(
 
The worst thing for the cheated on man must be the fact that he knows another bloke has unloaded up his misses – probably bareback, and then probably had a go/lick himself the same day….

Also, it must knock you confidence in the sack, as the misses is getting it better elsewhere

I know I could never ever forgive, no matter the situation. That’s why I wouldn’t do it myself.

I don’t know how LEON has controlled himself thus far, very respected. My mum cheated on my dad – I was old enough to understand that stuff like this happens, but its still pap.

Don’t do it mate, cheaters are as bad as each other. Plenty of single girls out there who will respect you enough to not put you in this situation.
 
DampCat said:
Actually if my wife chose to be with someone else then it's her decision. What is double standards and two faced with you is not to me. If my wife felt that she needed to be with someone else to make her happy then so be it. That's what she needs. Sure i'd be upset but i'm not going to kill myself over it. That's life. It happens. Not everyone is destined to be together. Even 10 or 20 years into a relationship. I am well aware that there may be someone out there who is better for my girlfriend than i am, but right now i don't care because i'm enjoying the time i have. If we stay together, awesome... cause i love her a lot. If we don't, than that's a part of life. I'll move on eventually. I'm not heartless, i'm realistic.
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You know I didn't mean to call you two faced, I was just using "you" as if I were addressing some random person... that'd probably have been clearer if I was talking to you rather than posting in a forum ... :p

But yeah - I'm not saying it's two faced for you to meet and like someone else when you're already in a relationship. That's fine, so long as you split up before doing anything with the "new person". But to think it's OK to cheat or sleep with someone else who's in a relationship with the 3rd person completely unaware... that's where you become scum, and it's just as much your fault for sleeping with them as it is their fault for cheating.

Fair enough if, for example, they were married but already "split up". But it's totally evil to sleep with someone when their original partner is completely unaware.

There's been plenty of people pushing the philosophy "treat others how you want to be treated" and I think that kind of thing should really come in to play in situations like this!

Get them to split up, then do the dirty. If she isn't willing to do that, she didn't really want you anyway ;)
 
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next time you see her son look him in the eyes then ask yourself whether you think it would be right.


If i were you I would explain it to her then leave it and generate as much distance as possible. If she really values your friendship that much then it should indicate to her that feelings like that can only end badly and hopefully she'll see things in a different light

I'd say that it would be highly unlikely for that to happen, but its still the right course of action to take in my opinion
 
LordSplodge said:
You're a bit bitter, aren't you?
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I am assuming, that if you had something to either constructive or witty to add to anything I have said, you'd have used this post to criticise my argument? As oppose to personal attacks, which I thought weren't allowed on these forums?

@ LEON, kettle, black etc
 
no offence intended by this question, and feel free not to answer Leon.

how do you work out in the gym with paralysed hands and lower leg iirc from another thread?

maybe im getting the wrong end of the stick (i know there are machines etc that can help) but id assume you were in a wheelchair?

im assuming you have a form of MS? my uncle does, he does a lot of Gym work, not sure how he manages, but all credit to him.

as mentioned no offence intended, many men could learn from your actions - self-respect/control takes more bottle than whacking someone
 
HITMAN_LEON said:
Yeh im bitter but so would anyone else be, anyway what did not kill me just made me stronger as I double my time in the gym for stress relief :D.
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Its cool that you have found ways to make peace with the situation. I am hoping that nothing I have said has been condescending.
 
I know this is 6 pages on and unlikely to get read but I think I have something to add.

You are in a dangerous position here - you're already known to be virtually in her pants and have left a long trail of messages and snogging on nights out with which she could easily drop you very deeply - leon deeply - into the doodoo.

So - you have to keep her sweet to keep your balls. Best bet for you is to introduce her to another hot guy and get her a reputation as a whore. That way her reputation and relationship get ruined and then you can have sex with her.

If you want to be a decent bloke and expose yourself to being dropped deeply into the doodoo (damn it's hard not swaring) then you could trust her to be decent (stifles giggles) and cut your losses and run.

Any other action is likely to lead to loss of gonads.
 
Shoseki said:
I am assuming, that if you had something to either constructive or witty to add to anything I have said, you'd have used this post to criticise my argument? As oppose to personal attacks, which I thought weren't allowed on these forums?
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In what world does calling you bitter class as a personal attack? It's like somebody called me opinionated.

It's not like I am calling you stupid, is it? ;) :p

The problem with your post is that you are putting yourself first and that not always the correct way to go, especially in delicate situations like the one the OP is in.

Lordsplodge said:
Part of the reason the World and a lot of peoples lives/relationships are in such a poor state is because of the "Do what you want and screw the consequences" attitude that prevails in todays society.
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Kind of sums up what I mean.

If you thought I was having a pop at you then I apologise but your post did come across as very bitter to me.
 
As he Hit that yet or has our friendly neighbourhood Hitman scared him off with his revenge storys ?
 
mehuk said:
no offence intended by this question, and feel free not to answer Leon.

how do you work out in the gym with paralysed hands and lower leg iirc from another thread?

maybe im getting the wrong end of the stick (i know there are machines etc that can help) but id assume you were in a wheelchair?

im assuming you have a form of MS? my uncle does, he does a lot of Gym work, not sure how he manages, but all credit to him.

as mentioned no offence intended, many men could learn from your actions - self-respect/control takes more bottle than whacking someone
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I have a neuropathy, this comes under a group of related conditions which are commonly known as Dystophy's. I am able to pick up weights with my fingers even though my thumbs are pretty much useless my fingers are very strong when I close my hand. The weakness develops in the back of the hand first and makes the hand weak opening the fingers. As for the legs they are paralysed from the knee down, no sort of control of the ancle or foot but the upper legs are still good. I walk as I have carbon-fibre splints to support the lower leg and control the ancle and foot. All my other muscle groups upper arms chest back ect ect are well toned and defined as I keep training to at least try and fight against the condition which is progresive. Sort of fighting a loosing battle but you can only try and the muscles I can gain strength in can partially make life easier for those I have lost.
 
Shoseki said:
Its cool that you have found ways to make peace with the situation. I am hoping that nothing I have said has been condescending.
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no its all good, and I posted on here and the thread that I started as a kind of therapy, let out some more steam and get objective opinions.
 
fair play to you mate - probably easier to fall into self-pity, so props for getting through that and the misses

wonder if the OP decided to empty his nuts in it or not in the end?
 
mehuk said:
fair play to you mate - probably easier to fall into self-pity, so props for getting through that and the misses

wonder if the OP decided to empty his nuts in it or not in the end?
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If he did empty them he must be twice as empty because I say you must have an empty head to take part in such underhand things, maybe he saw sense, at least he did see a little sense and posted here before his testosterone got the better of him.
 
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IF you want to pork her then pork her, its as simple as that. You know more about the scenario then we do so its your call. If her husband has any Steven Segal tendencies then stay well clear in case he finds out!
 
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