For those still lurking around...cheating, why do people do it?

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The below isn't entirely necessary but I want to say it to get it out of my system anyway...

Went out in Southend tonight and had a really really good time, it was Myself, Callum, Jenny, and Kim (Callum's GF) and some of Kim's friends. We went to Mayhem (if anyone knows it) and had a great night.

Now I was designated driver...on the way back to dropping Callum and Kim off Jenny gets a phone call from her ex/current gf (it's complicated) and they have a big domestic over something Harry has done. Jenny now wants to kill Harry, and in turn currently rather hates him!

We arrive at Kim's place, Callum stumbles out as he's extremely wasted, shake hands and he says goodbye, hugs and kisses from Kim, say goodbye and quickly arrange to meetup on Tuesday. It's at this point I should say Kim's become very close to the group and I consider her a good friend.

On the way back I'm now trying to help Jenny who thinks the world has come to an end (Harry didn't cheat on her with her gf btw) and she keeps going on about how she hates Harry and think's he's a ****** etc. But she had had a drink so hopefully she will calm down by tomorrow...anyway, I drop her off, say goodbye and head for home.

Half way to home I get a phone call from Kim and the conversation goes something like

Me: "Hey babe"
Kim: "Hey, you ok?"

she sounded normal at this point

Me: "yeah not bad, nearly home...what's up?"
Kim: "Did you know Callum is cheating on me?"
Me: "What? **** no I didn't, didn't have a clue. What's made you think this?"
Kim: "Callum's phone just rang from a with-held number and a girl was asking where Callum was, and also claimed to be his gf"
Me: "oh crap, I'm so sorry, I really didn't know anything was going on"

she begins crying

Me: "Babe, if theres anything I can do, just ring me, anytime, if you want to talk or whatever, seriously just call"
Kim: "Ok...thank you..."

Hung up...

This is the thing I do not get about people. I for one do not condone cheating at all, I think it's wrong and disgraceful and I'm now rather ****** at Callum (providing this turns out to be true) But he and Kim always appeared to be in a happy stable relationship and they work really well togethor and stuff...I don't know.

No real point to this thread...I needed to say something before I attempt at sleeping...urgh.

Thanks for reading :)
 
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wtf????

Your cheating on someone, or getting cheated on, are you/they cheating now, while you post this?
 
wtf????

Your cheating on someone, or getting cheated on, are you/they cheating now, while you post this?

See the OP.

I originally accidentally posted the thread half done, so I edited the post and then carried on writing it!
 
I want to know what's happend to harry^^

Harry basically bought tickets for Jennys gf to go see Alicia keys tonight, 2 intact, one for the gf and then whoever else she wanted to take, she took Harry cos he bought them...but Harry hates Alicia keys but the gf also loves Alicia to bits! Hence buying it as a birthday present.

Jenny is now convinced that she won't be able to top the presant...which is complete crap!
 
Wow that's pretty low, to hate a guy for making someone you love happy, surly that's all that should matter to you?
 
Wow that's pretty low, to hate a guy for making someone you love happy, surly that's all that should matter to you?

your right, that's all that should matter, jenny is extremely insecure though...and worrys that she won't be able to make the gf happy! That's why she is so annoyed
 
your right, that's all that should matter, jenny is extremely insecure though...and worrys that she won't be able to make the gf happy! That's why she is so annoyed

Ahh I love couples, when your on the outside everything is nice and simple, when your in one though.... All the little things seam so important, but sadly it's usually the negative things that feel like that :(
 
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I for one do not condone cheating at all, I think it's wrong and disgraceful and I'm now rather ****** at Callum


So given things are about to go pear shaped. Which one do you stick by?
 
People do it because they think they can.

As always, what goes around comes around. If you cheated with someone, how can you be trusted. If someone cheats with you, what's to stop them cheating with anyone else?

Thread Useless Without Pics tbh..

If you don't want to, just find some representative pics on the 'net.
 
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