Why do girls do this? :/

Freefaller said:
FFS cut the attitude - now. I read the post, I still wouldn't have left my friend by himself. :rolleyes:
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I didn't though! Sorry for the attitude but I really didn't, so have your rolleyes back

He was with other friends and talking to them so wasn't on his own.

Whenever we go out before we always split up to leave anyway as we get separate buses, and we catch them at opposite ends of town. So we would have had to split up when leaving the club anyway. This group of guys was waiting around the corner that I walked past to get my bus, so walking back to make sure he got out ok meant walking past them.

I phoned him all the way back to the bus to ask him when hes leaving and to remind him to talk to the bouncer I spoke to so he sorts him out should any trouble arise

Yes it might have been wrong, but I don't beleive I put him at anymore risk than I would have done if I left with him
 
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I understand the reasoning for why you split up - it does make sense in a way, but it wasn't the only thing you could have done. However, personally, I wouldn't have done it. There are many other ways of handling that situation.

Anyway, you both got home ok, so alls well that ends well.
 
i think being the stubborn ****** i am - i'd have walked outside with my mate, but i do understand why you split up.

i do have mates who aren't afraid to take or give a beating though and who are just as stubborn as me so i know they'd have my back no matter what. :)

don't swear. FF.
 
Steedie said:
I keep myself to myself when it matters, I'm not cheeky to people and I know exactly when to shut up

I'm proud of it too
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Good words to go by there, im much the same except a little cheeky sometimes, its just knowing when to shut up. One fight, lost it, never again.
 
Steedie said:
Yes it might have been wrong, but I don't beleive I put him at anymore risk than I would have done if I left with him
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It's not wrong at all, infact splitting up would be the most sensible thing overall.

Not like you turned around and said "im off, your on your own with this mate" and pegged it. People are different, the bigger man walks away :)

I've never really been in a fight either, ok ive been hit but i walked away. I can tell you it really peed him off when i casually walked away not acting scared.
 
Freefaller said:
I understand the reasoning for why you split up - it does make sense in a way, but it wasn't the only thing you could have done. However, personally, I wouldn't have done it. There are many other ways of handling that situation.

Anyway, you both got home ok, so alls well that ends well.
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like...

apart from going outside and kicking the **** out of the gang
 
The guys were looking for 2 guys, So leaving 1 at a time was probably a good idea, and the reason they weren't spotted. As for other ways out, There was the option of speaking with the bouncers, And they'd usually let you out the back way. If there is one. Sometimes they will even get you in a Taxi.

I've been in way too many tight spots, Had to fight sometimes(Which I hate) Avoiding trouble is the best way, Always.
 
wannabedamned said:
The guys were looking for 2 guys, So leaving 1 at a time was probably a good idea, and the reason they weren't spotted. As for other ways out, There was the option of speaking with the bouncers, And they'd usually let you out the back way. If there is one. Sometimes they will even get you in a Taxi.

I've been in way too many tight spots, Had to fight sometimes(Which I hate) Avoiding trouble is the best way, Always.
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Agreed, its not like he walked out and ****** off home. He walked out and got clear, and when it became clear his mate was in trouble, he went back and told the bouncers. Short of being pig headed and come flying out of the club with his mate into a group of guys where he WOULD have got battered. What he did seems to be a pretty level headed thing to do.
 
Would have been nice to have posted, then all the OcUK possy could have turned up.

Glad you and your mate are ok. The amounts of fight I've had over a girl :rolleyes:.

Seriously no point.
 
Steedie said:
Hey guys

Just got back from a night out with me and a mate

We were having a cracking night, dancing away to some cracking songs and having the best night for a while. Anyway, two girls walked over, really pretty, the sort that I'm not used to getting the attention of lol so anyway, walked over and started dancing, doing the usual, grinding against us. So we played along and tried to see where it would go

Anyway, this carried on for an hour, and they insisted on getting one of those photos done that clubs often do where they print keyring photos of groups (£4 a keyring, wtf?). Got that done, big mistake, will explain why
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TBH If a strange girl started doing that sort of thing to me without getting to know her 1st, when I was younger I would have just walked away, I'd've thought something was wrong straight away (not being the best looking bloke around, I do stunt work for quasimodo in my spare time :D ) it's sods law those type of girls have the possessive jealous type B/F, who would beat to a pulp any bloke who they thought would try to get off with said girl, despite the girl starting it off when the bloke was minding his own business.
 
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