Mechanisms, people. We have mechanisms in this society that allow us diminished responsibility. I don't respect military personnel, I respect their leaders, or don't respect them if I don't believe in them. Why?
Because the control of the system is top down, and thus diminished responsibility is used to "guilt-free" those at the bottom. "Shoot this civilian? I know it's wrong, everyone knows it's wrong, but I got an order to do it so I do it." I don't respect that. I don't respect mindless automatons, no matter how well trained they are. The army is a social mechanism and the people in control are the people who make or break it. And who are in control?
Military leaders? Or politicians? Who has the final say? Who's shoulders do the millions of deaths over hundreds of years rest on? Who's ego is fuelling the current conflict? Who's vested interests are being nurtured by another 10 billion pounds being spent on weapon X?
As soon as you enter the armed forces, its like you are given a holy writ, a state sanctioned duty that is untouchable. Why do the millitary have their own court system, ours not capable of handling the atrocities committed in our names? Most people would sweep "military information" under the "official secrets act" type rug, but that rug does nothing but serve those people it concerns, not ourselves, who pay for them to continously wage random wars or make judgements on our behalf without us ever being consulted/informed.
I wouldn't harass a soldier, but I'd pity him. I'd wonder if he really knew what he was fighting for, what he would die for. Whether he had any idea that actually, none of his superiors even knew what they were fighting for/dying for. The military is a very scary form of totalitarianism, and it is effective.
What really sickens me, is when I see inside videos of people attacking insurgents/the enemy and hearing the joy that the soldiers get...