Do You Have Family Feuds ??

Do the people who dont see their Mums or Dads have any interest in wanting to see them, the reason I ask is because I can quite imagine never seeing my Dad again and being ok with that, but I cannot imagine never seeing my Mum again, shes too important to me.

My Mum however has never met her real Dad because he left before she was born. She doesnt seem to have any interest in finding him because she never had him in the first place.

Im just curious I guess.
 
I don't see the point in such pettiness, but there was a bit of it on my dads side. My dads brother was having an affair, and his other brothers wife found out and told my other aunt. My uncle then blamed my other aunt for his marriage falling apart, and wouldn't have anything to do with her for a couple of years.
 
Four years or so ago my father bought a house for my sister and her family and let her live there rent free for two and a half years (all she had to pay was poll tax/electric ect) then without warning she threw the keys through our letter box and moved over two hundred miles ago without warning and tried to stop my father from seeing the grandchildren (she eventually relented when he threatened her with legal action) however when my father died nine month after this happened she broke all contact and moved again meaning my mother hasn't seen the grandchildren since then and she never even sent a bunch of flower/wreathe ect to his funeral. If she was to walk through our front to here and now the likelihood is that she would be stabbed on sight :mad:
 
knip said:
Do the people who dont see their Mums or Dads have any interest in wanting to see them, the reason I ask is because I can quite imagine never seeing my Dad again and being ok with that, but I cannot imagine never seeing my Mum again, shes too important to me.

My Mum however has never met her real Dad because he left before she was born. She doesnt seem to have any interest in finding him because she never had him in the first place.

Im just curious I guess.
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I'd, at the very least, like to know who my Father is, what he does and if he has any family. If he has any other children, etc.
 
knip said:
Do the people who dont see their Mums or Dads have any interest in wanting to see them, the reason I ask is because I can quite imagine never seeing my Dad again and being ok with that, but I cannot imagine never seeing my Mum again, shes too important to me.

My Mum however has never met her real Dad because he left before she was born. She doesnt seem to have any interest in finding him because she never had him in the first place.

Im just curious I guess.
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Dad betrayed my family, I have no qualms with not talking to him.
 
knip said:
Do the people who dont see their Mums or Dads have any interest in wanting to see them, the reason I ask is because I can quite imagine never seeing my Dad again and being ok with that, but I cannot imagine never seeing my Mum again, shes too important to me.
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My dad left when I was 14, no warning just upped and left on a "training course" and never came back. He never tried to contact us, never sent a birthday or a christmas card. The only communication was via divorce lawyers (and my mum needed to set that in motion). He chose to leave his old life behind. I can honestly say I have no feelings for him at all any more. It was upsetting at the time, but at the time I was 14 and many things easily upset me. Now, I see it as his loss. He has never met my wife, never met my daughter. Never saw the person that I became as opposed to the person he wanted me to become.

As far as I am concerned he is irellevant and will never have any relevance in my life again.
 
some money issues and a selfish uncle have sent one side of my family spiraling

other side is about as close as any family ever, and its huge
 
Not spoken to my dad for 15 years, since my Grandads funeral. He chucked my sister and myself out when I was 11. Needless to say I've never really been too keen on him since. My sister tried getting in contact with him a few years back, but he didn't want to know. Ocassionally chat to my half-brother who lives with him, but thats only a recent development thanks to one of our cousins.
 
My family is very close, but the wifes isnt, wife hasnt spoke to grandmother for 15 years, mother in law hasnt spoke to her brother or mother in the same time, i find it real sad, wish they would just talk, they only live streets away from each other as well.
 
Families are a pain in the arse tbh. Not spoke to my step sister for about 3 years when she battered my partner and my mum on my step dads sixtieth, for nothing:mad:


It took her 2 years to say sorry to her own dad for spoiling his birthday!! My mum never got an apology.
 
I do yeah. Its only really me, my mum and two brothers. And we aren't all that close in general.

Did speak with my cousin for a while when we randomly met but stopped now after her bf ripped me off on a motorbike I sold him and she backed him up saying I was originally going to give the motorbike away and we were doing him a favour. Also aunts and all, no contact at all.

Haven't seen my dad in years, he walked past the odd time in town but he doesn't recognise me and has no interest in any of us after he left when I was probably around 11 or 12. Seems really odd. But I wouldn't mind knowing the odd thing about him like what kind of music he likes.
 
Not really. The only one I know about is one of my half brothers doesn't speak to my Dad ever since he left his previous wife (the mother). He apparently took her side and I don't think they've seen each other for 20+ years. I've never met him either.
 
I haven't spoken to my grandparents for about 10 years and neither has my mum. My Nana had a stroke and didn't recover properly due to her alcoholism :o Mum and I used to visit her in hospital but she never recognised us, so she used to tell my Grandad and Uncle that we hadn't been. Then she used to say we had been but we were nasty to her (which we weren't).

In the end, Grandad and Uncle took Nana to a nursing home without telling us. We went to the hospital one day to find an empty bed :/

Not spoken to them since. In fact they could be dead and we wouldn't know.
 
My Mum and Nan have not spoken for over two years now, has made things really diffucult, I also have not spoken to my Dad or seen him for around 10 years maybe more.
 
We've never really had any family feuds. Probably because dads side are very laid back and mums are very close. Everyone is always in touch with everyone else at least once a week.
 
Vixen said:
I don't see the point in such pettiness,
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Abuse, alcholism, neglect, bullying and theft are petty?


Not spoken to my dad and his mad side of the family in over 6 years, and I don't care. Bit of a prat to be perfectly honest, the usual self important, never does anything wrong, has the emotional intelligence of a rock etc.
 
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