They do no as ive shouted at them for long enough and banged on the ceiling to which they stamp down even more. I really couldnt go up there and talk to them as like i said i would push him down the stairs.
My neighbours are Superb.
You really need to approach your neighbours in a friendly adult way & explain to them what the problem is.
Personally i have no problems with hearing my neighbours riding & just smile to myself & think get in there my son & turn my game/system/music or telly up.
Getting on with your neighbours is the best way to resolve any current or future problems. If you both get on then neither of you wants to disturb the other, A gentle bit of banter about the missus screaming is a laugh then rather than a problem/issue.
I do understand what your saying but when i have to get up work work at 6 and i cant get to sleep because off it is a right pain in the arse
)Also the wife was swearing at her dog and kids out side her property. I found this offensive. How do I get her an asbo?

Sensible option
Urinate in letter box. Poo on doorstep. Man juice on their door handle. Vomit at their door. Play obscenely loud Church music every day, all day when they want to sleep. As soon as they stop you could always start/ bang on their door or ring their doorbell. Duc tape the door bell down when you go to work. Superglue their locks (they cant get in once they leave or lock the place from the outside)
Steal their benefit cheques/ government benefit mail.
Hope you do the right thing though.
If I was the OP, I would at least do something. If you have banged on the floor when they make noise they know you are not happy. Tbh they dont give a flying **** about you or your wife. Also I hate spongers.