400FSB will push the RAM to DDR800 PC6400 at 1:1. But the OCZ kit generally overclocks well so it's most likely to do a lot more than 800Mhz.
At 390FSB 5:6 you're running your RAM at 936Mhz so it's already overclocked by a fair amount.
2.2V is still ok if you have nice case airflow. But 960Mhz really is pushing the OCZ kit a bit too far and it's most likely what's holding your CPU overclock back. What timings is the RAM running at?
If you have the option to run 1:1 then I'd use that.