Whats the tactic for scoring women in clubs?

Malc as usual is smashing that nail on the head :)

You really need to practice, at the end of the day, half the girls you spot you will never see again. There is no shame in being turned down by a girl, it happens to us all. You need to be different to everyone else and remember most girkls have been messed about so will be very wary of your intentions.

Ask her lots of decent questions, and not the general, "Sooooooo where you off to tonight?" "Having a good night...?" I usually butt in on them talking and compliment something about them, then apologise for it and elt them carry on. They often gaze at you in amazement when you do this, it's best if you get them to look away and feel embarassed, but you just made their night, with that compliment.

The other bit most blokes bugger up on is the end part, seeing them again after the night out, tell her you don't really give your number out to girls, because of the hassle, but you want to chat to her again, maybe meet up for a drink. Don't act desperate. Don't take her number, give her yours and see what happens. Also, don't stand by her all night, being the one that excuses yourself to see your mates for a bit is a good thing. Keep with your mates but glance at her and smile, then pop over later with a drink. Don't buy her anything boring, buy her something adventurous.
 
shrek2 said:
Good advice. Thing is when you have knocked back a few vodkas conversation doesn't become a strong point. So should drink less I suppose.
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Don't drink at all if it makes you a ****.
The rule with drink is that a little goes a long way. Find a drink you like that is not to strong or put a lot of mixer in your Vodka. One thing i will say is i will have a laugh with a drunk woman but i will Not pull her, I hate drunks. If i do get lucky it has to be with somebody sober enough to know what they are doing :p

If/when i see a woman i fancy & have to make a move it goes summit like this.

I see her & give her my best Cheeky grin maybe even making a cheeky comment like "You smell Gorgeous" & then a cheeky grin again & spin off to another part of the club/place. Later on I'll see her again & she will already know me from before so it's a normal Hi & just start chatting.
Bare in mind though i can talk to anybody anywhere at any time.
For the mummys boys i would say just Grow a set & get out & make a fool of yourself but laugh at yourself whilst doing it. The sooner you get over the scarey omgz women omg panic can't talk stutter awkward omg I've gone red bit the sooner you will get laid.
The key to the whole situation is having a Laugh at yourself & With others as this makes the whole situation not Awkward.
When you do finally get some 1 on 1 with a woman then just Listen & ask questions about her ;)
Then pick the one thing about her that you know she has confidence in & comment on it. Be careful here though as women are smarter than you :p
I met a woman recently for the first time & i would have picked her hair, She has Gorgeous hair real natural & well kept & obviously looks after it.
Just a "You have Gorgeous hair" will do, She knows it so it gets past the He is BS'ing me bit ;)
Like i said Be careful here though & don't go picking something about her she hates or it's game over, She'll know you'ree only trying to get in her knickers & wheelspin off :p
 
I have found observing from far (i.e. edge of dancefloor) making eye contact and if she is interested you will lock eyes for a moment. I usually then move closer to her and just keep smiling and if she interested you will know by this point and just move in for the kill - dont ruin it with a cheesey chat up line either.

That worked for me a few times and the last time it did i married the woman.
 
For example yesterday I did something which I don't usually do.

I was walking passed a queue for a bus and this attractive blonde girl made eye contact and smiled. I got to the back of the queue and was waiting when again we made eye contact and she quickly looked the other way as if she wasn't expecting me to be looking or catch her...

I got on the bus, but there were no seats so I went upstairs and could have sat next to a few people but decided to sit next to her instead. She dropped her keys behind my bum when we went around a corner and she blushed...we got into convo and I am seeing her tonight!

If you don't take the opportunity while you have it, you never know what might happen. There is no rules or general tactics, everyone has their own ways and girls are all receptive to different forms of flirting..... take your chances and do it your own way, be yourself and not something you want to be or think you need to be.
 
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It's taken me 42 years to learn my Skillz so there Best be a little something nice in my inbox for this, Email in Trust you know the rest :p:p:p
 
33L said:
I have found observing from far (i.e. edge of dancefloor) making eye contact and if she is interested you will lock eyes for a moment. I usually then move closer to her and just keep smiling and if she interested you will know by this point and just move in for the kill - dont ruin it with a cheesey chat up line either.

That worked for me a few times and the last time it did i married the woman.
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Ahhhh that is the scariest thing I have heard! there is some greasy Portuguese guy that does that in my club every weekend and it freaks me out :( :D
 
Bit of an OT rant here but I didn't think it needed it's own thread and it is connected a bit.

I went out for our uni clubs and societies ball last night (which was nice). However, my mates in the Scuba Club, of which I am a member, have the opposite taste in music to myself.

I just cannot stand old cheesy pop music.

The likes of the YMCA etc etc does nothing for me whatsoever but the majority rules so we ended up in cheese night at the local disco. :p Anywho I must have looked like a miserable git but as soon as some modern pop came on, Estelle I believe it was, I was happy to get up and dance - they all decided to leave!

I don't mind dancing like a tit to music I think is remotely listenable but there is something about cheesy pop that makes me want to cut my ears off.

Am I missing a tick here? It seems the place was rammed with people, all getting their dance on but I just cant understand it.

Panzer
 
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^That is not what you want to end up like... a little goes a long way with the friendly approach.
 
malc30 said:
Bare in mind though i can talk to anybody anywhere at any time.
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I'm the same, have impressed many people with being able to just go up and talk to people (in many different situations).
Last new woman i was with, the woman took me to a party for one of her friends (very early into our relationship), was going to be 35 people i had never met before. She was worried that I would be shy and sit in a corner. I ended up talking to more people than she did and she had loads of comments for the next week about how nice I was and how good it was being able to just talk to people :D

Panzerbjorn said:
What about "You have really pretty eyes..... I'd like to skull **** them"

Panzer
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quality :D
 
The Game by Neil Strauss - if you believe the reviews you all be more alpha than MrT fighting off a black bear with both his hands tied behind his back by the time youv finished reading it.
 
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