Let me just start by saying that ANYONE who joins our armed forces and puts their life on the line for their country has my full and respect, and I do not mean in any way to demean the deaths of those who have lost their lives in these recent conflicts..
However i'm noticing an increasingly frequency from the media at the moment where the soldiers deaths are really being focussed on greatly on an individual basis. A couple were on the news just now for around 10 minutes weeping their hearts out for losing their son and saying how they will never see him again. Now I genuinely feel for them and their loss, and I don't think such things should go un-noticed... but their sons and daughters signed up to become soldiers, and they did so in the clear knowledge that their life was at risk... and I don't personally see the need to have a huge media uproar every time a soldier dies. For example today there was all the reporting about the "first female soldier to die in the conflict". Why should it make any difference what the sex is? Was she not doing the same job as all the other soldiers?
I just feel it's almost as if all of a sudden we've realised that soldiers die in combat... and i'm not sure if it's just because these conflicts are so comparatively small in loss of life compared to previous "wars"... or whether it's the start of a new trend, but I just don't see the need for making a huge uproar every time a soldier dies, and I don't see the need to have their families paraded around on TV breaking down in front of the cameras. The brave souls out there know full well the risk they are under, and how dangerous the situation is... they are there to do a job or die trying. The death of a solider, while sad, should also be a positive thing... the understated and tactful celebration of someone who fought bravely and died fighting for what they believe in. What makes the country worth fighting for. I just can't help feeling all of this focus and attention on the grieving and suffering of the families is detracting from the reason they died in the first place, serving their country, and I can't see how it benefits either the public or the armed forces dramatising each and every death and focussing on that aspect of the loss.
I don't even know if the above makes any sense... it's a hard thing to put into words without coming accross as cold or callous. Does anyone get where i'm coming from with this?
However i'm noticing an increasingly frequency from the media at the moment where the soldiers deaths are really being focussed on greatly on an individual basis. A couple were on the news just now for around 10 minutes weeping their hearts out for losing their son and saying how they will never see him again. Now I genuinely feel for them and their loss, and I don't think such things should go un-noticed... but their sons and daughters signed up to become soldiers, and they did so in the clear knowledge that their life was at risk... and I don't personally see the need to have a huge media uproar every time a soldier dies. For example today there was all the reporting about the "first female soldier to die in the conflict". Why should it make any difference what the sex is? Was she not doing the same job as all the other soldiers?
I just feel it's almost as if all of a sudden we've realised that soldiers die in combat... and i'm not sure if it's just because these conflicts are so comparatively small in loss of life compared to previous "wars"... or whether it's the start of a new trend, but I just don't see the need for making a huge uproar every time a soldier dies, and I don't see the need to have their families paraded around on TV breaking down in front of the cameras. The brave souls out there know full well the risk they are under, and how dangerous the situation is... they are there to do a job or die trying. The death of a solider, while sad, should also be a positive thing... the understated and tactful celebration of someone who fought bravely and died fighting for what they believe in. What makes the country worth fighting for. I just can't help feeling all of this focus and attention on the grieving and suffering of the families is detracting from the reason they died in the first place, serving their country, and I can't see how it benefits either the public or the armed forces dramatising each and every death and focussing on that aspect of the loss.
I don't even know if the above makes any sense... it's a hard thing to put into words without coming accross as cold or callous. Does anyone get where i'm coming from with this?

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