Alright then, I'll give you my other analysis. from the start of this thread you heavily imply that in your eyes, up until the shenangins with the other bloke started, you had the perfect relationship with day old rabbits jumping around, birds singing and everything. Regardless of how she saw the relationship during that time that's how you saw it. We've all been there, its great. Now for whatever reason she has started to see another bloke. Now a small part of your mind is causing you to suspect, but a big chunk fo your mind which really likes the idea of a perfect relationship is telling you to ignore the signals and hope that if you never say anything, everything will sort itself out and the other bloke will eventually go away. This big part of your mind is currently also making you ingore the fact that you may very well be having sex with someone who recently has had sex with someone else. This alone would make me physically sick if I thought it was going on with my partner, but with you, you denial is so complete that you don't seem to have considered this as a possibility. Basically you so in denial it is unbelievable. Morrissey could write his next 3 albums on you alone. No offence like.
I think she is cheating……
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Alright then, I'll give you my other analysis. from the start of this thread you heavily imply that in your eyes, up until the shenangins with the other bloke started, you had the perfect relationship with day old rabbits jumping around, birds singing and everything. Regardless of how she saw the relationship during that time that's how you saw it. We've all been there, its great. Now for whatever reason she has started to see another bloke. Now a small part of your mind is causing you to suspect, but a big chunk fo your mind which really likes the idea of a perfect relationship is telling you to ignore the signals and hope that if you never say anything, everything will sort itself out and the other bloke will eventually go away. This big part of your mind is currently also making you ingore the fact that you may very well be having sex with someone who recently has had sex with someone else. This alone would make me physically sick if I thought it was going on with my partner, but with you, you denial is so complete that you don't seem to have considered this as a possibility. Basically you so in denial it is unbelievable. Morrissey could write his next 3 albums on you alone. No offence like.
Well it's pretty clear where this is going now, so I'll just +1 for the break up sex vote.
Mind you.. a really rough sack session might be all she needs to change her mind about the other fella.. so tonight absolutely ruin her.. make it so she can't sit down for a week
Mind you.. a really rough sack session might be all she needs to change her mind about the other fella.. so tonight absolutely ruin her.. make it so she can't sit down for a week
Morrissey could write three albums about the despair of a lightbulb going out.
Well it's pretty clear where this is going now, so I'll just +1 for the break up sex vote.
Mind you.. a really rough sack session might be all she needs to change her mind about the other fella.. so tonight absolutely ruin her.. make it so she can't sit down for a week
If he was capable of that she might not have left him in the first place
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Maybe one of my reasons is that £700 I have paid for a holiday I don't like to see wasted. I also do not like to let a family member down when in July/August they could have let it out for a lot of money and I mean a lot.
Maybe I can change the name on the tickets for another person if I find someone wanting and able to go ? I have not given that much thought to be honest.
Maybe I need to get on some dating sites and my ass down town and find a nice lass who fancies a nice holiday. No strings.
Maybe maybe maybe maybe.
IF, this was all happening after our holiday then I can assure you I would have already acted!
Maybe I can change the name on the tickets for another person if I find someone wanting and able to go ? I have not given that much thought to be honest.
Maybe I need to get on some dating sites and my ass down town and find a nice lass who fancies a nice holiday. No strings.
Maybe maybe maybe maybe.
IF, this was all happening after our holiday then I can assure you I would have already acted!
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Be safe just in case... you don't know how clean this other bloke is IF HE EXISTS! 
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I don't have any, there all married lol. I'm the odd one out in the group like that.
I'm going to walk my dog now. At least he is loyal!!!! without question.
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Damn I just read this entire thread and there is NO PAY OFF. 
Sorry to hear about your relationship problem dude but lets get serious, confront her, confront him, go mental, to hell with the consequences, take off on holiday on your own once you've ruined them. Post evidence.
Sorry to hear about your relationship problem dude but lets get serious, confront her, confront him, go mental, to hell with the consequences, take off on holiday on your own once you've ruined them. Post evidence.
Actually, Morrissey is quite positive and upbeat about lightbulbs.....
"There is a light and it never goes out, there is a light and it never goes out, there is a light and it NEVER goes out...." etc.
Must have got himself some nice long life energy effecient ones then
Either that or he was in total denial about the situation and being ironic in a post modernistic way.
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I don't have any, there all married lol. I'm the odd one out in the group like that.
I'm going to walk my dog now. At least he is loyal!!!! without question.
pick me
i'll come with ya
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Why? How is it his fault?
Sell the ticket on Ebay. Some guy did that for his honeymoon. He caught her cheating so he put the ticket up for sale saying "this does not need to be romantic, i just want to share it with someone".
You'll get a heffer, but that increase your chance of getting it wet every cloud, silver lining.
You'll get a heffer, but that increase your chance of getting it wet
every cloud, silver lining.You'll get a heffer, but that increase your chance of getting it wet
You can't keep saying this when you're invading her privacy at every opportunity. That is not being a nice guy.
I've said it before and I'll repeat it. You don't trust this girl. So irrespective of whether she is cheating or not, or whether you have 'evidence' you can't trust her so you should break up with her.
Just break up with her, give her a couple of days to get her stuff out of your house, and make sure you get the money back for that dress. Don't do anything rash, don't raise your voice, just end it and move on. And in your next relationship don't violate your partners trust so badly. If you do chances are if you didn't have reason to suspect her of something your actions will push her into doing something anyway. It's a self perpetuating problem.
I don't get you. All this chat of holidays and taking clothes back, honestly who gives a **** about rubbish like that. Stop wasting time, if she's ****ing around behind your back either get shot of her or learn to put up with it. But either way jebus stop concentrating on inconsequential (relatively small) financial sums and concentrate on whether or not you're being made to look a fool. /Rant
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