I think she is cheating……

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_dogma_ said:
What would knowing how long she stayed on the phone to him or how many texts she sent to him prove?

I used to call my friends for hours at a time. I text one more than I text my boyfriend some days. It just proves she's spoken to him. Why does that have to be so sinister?

After a while the honeymoon period wears off maybe she's just realised that she isn't happy anymore. A year isn't that long a time to get to know someone. There doesn't have to be any alterior motives to wanting to break up with you, maybe she just doesn't love you anymore and doesn't know how to say it as she knows how you'll react. Maybe this guy is just a friend and is a shoulder to lean on for her.

If you want to know the truth just ask. Don't go around snooping and "waiting for evidence". Be a man and just talk to her about it. Evidently your communication with each other has diminshed!
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Well said dogma, words of wisdom.
 
Neoni said:
Of course!

@ the OP.

If you love her that much sit down and have a CONVERSATION, just say do you think things are working out etc, i feel like we've been distant and i dont wanna be etc, and if she says "Im seeing somebody else" or something of that effect, then you will know, if she questions it, and asks why you say these things? and is saying she thinks everything is fine, i wouldnt be so worried, she must have a heart afterall.
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The time for talking is OVER. The forum has voted - you need to bang her then kick her out, take her clothes back and then get some fatty to go on holiday with you ... if you can change the name on the flight!
 
FUFTUB said:
Why did this get locked?

Also, I'm seriously starting to think that the OP is on a very good wind up and its had us all!
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So the mods/dons could filter out the bickering, back on topic now!

Sorry for the bickering, i'd just like to add.


But Op, really dont hold back itll make you feel worse, you need to know!
 
15 pages of people telling you the best plan and you are still clueless about how to handle it.

Just decide one way or the other. whatever you choose i think talking to the woman is the main thing. More spying isnt going to achieve anything

Ps. Poor Kahnie :( he shouldnt mess with emos! ;) haha
 
Hedge said:
15 pages of people telling you the best plan and you are still clueless about how to handle it.

Just decide one way or the other. whatever you choose i think talking to the woman is the main thing. More spying isnt going to achieve anything

Ps. Poor Kahnie :( he shouldnt mess with emos! ;) haha
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Seriously not in the mood mate, dont bother please.
 
Been reading with interest, tell me if I am wrong, but does this sum up events so far:


Man posts thread on internet forum re: suspicions of cheating gf

No evidence

Forum massive submits pages of worldly advice (and lots of random bumf)

No evidence

Man supplies more reasons to support his suspicions

No evidence

More pages of advice to stop snooping, be honest, talk it over and/or kick her in the ovaries

No evidence

Man & forum start to correlate thinking, supporting cheating hussy theory

No evidence

Forum advise to 'man up', confront and/or get shot

No evidence

Man wants to see phone bill

No evidence

Gen. consensus leads that this may or may not provide, cold, hard proof of cheating.

Still no evidence...

Man wants holiday

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Even if she isn't cheating, I think the irreparable damage to your relationship, your trust and your confidence has already been done.

:(
 
This thread is frustrating me. Stop making excuses and do as the majority are saying. Talk to her about it, get it out in the open. It will make you feel much MUCH better.
 
Steameh said:
This thread is frustrating me. Stop making excuses and do as the majority are saying. Talk to her about it, get it out in the open. It will make you feel much MUCH better.
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This man speaks the truth.
 
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