I think she is cheating……

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Good luck with the talk. If you don't do it tonight she'll almost certainly dump you before you get the chance, which will make you feel a whole lot worse.
 
Everytime someone posts a thread on OCUK stating "I think my partner is cheating" it always seem they are!

This thread is like a car crash. Soooo painful to watch yet I cant look away! It's frustrating that there's no conclusion yet but even my housemate is reading this thread now so at least the OP has provided an OCUK drama to take away the weeks pain at work!!

It's like an agony aunt column in the sun, but we can change what happens!! Win \o/
 
FFS this is getting pathetic now, either sort it out or get a mod to lock it and stop wasting our valuable browsing time. :p
 
Just end it mate. Money is the last thing you want to worry about with regards to a relationship. I mean I would rather be poor then have a **** of a girlfriend. Respect your self more and move on. Its never easy I've been there and it was horrible but trying to make a relationship work after all this would be worse because your always be thinking what is she up to. End the relationship and move on mate its the best advice.

Time heals thats all I can say. Let us know how you get on.
 
Can't do anything at the moment can I as she is at work.

I am at the moment on the phone to the travel agents seeing if I can cancell the holiday.

But I will get my cheque off of her.

Also just spoke to my best friend and he can't believe it. Sending me friendly text's, chin up etc.
 
As much as I want everything to be sorted out, I cant help feeling that there is a little voice at the back of my head saying that there is something not quite right about all this...
 
Magic_x_uk said:
Can't do anything at the moment can I as she is at work.
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You've had the past 2 weeks. As soon as you thought something was going on you should have asked her. Not fish around for evidence.

Mat said:
As much as I want everything to be sorted out, I cant help feeling that there is a little voice at the back of my head saying that there is something not quite right about all this...
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Indeed, Very suspicious.
 
Why are you contemplating NOT going on holiday? FFS go on your own and live it up! No way I would cancel a deserved break ever!!

Cancel her ticket, get a refund on it if possible and go on your own and make "friends" :)
 
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Seriously ? you don't think her acting strange towards me for the last 2 weeks since they started texting?

Nor her having the chat of "whats the point" "I should go" "It's pointless" "i've had enough"
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You may not have solid proof but you have all of the evidence you need to confront her about it. The evidence sounds pretty conclusive. If she's not cheating on you i'll eat my keyboard.
 
I would say not a bad thing if he is not got lots of cash right now, then cancelling the holiday and getting all the money back is not a bad thing. He can then use it for other things or another planned holiday.

I think you should talk to her tonight rather than just kicking her out straight. Say that you feel things are not going well and you are not happy. See if she admits feeling the same etc.

Then kick her out, or see how it goes.
 
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