I think she is cheating……

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The needs for a soap opera has flooded this thread.

He's just using us as a soundboard and he'll be doing it in his own time anyway.

And to all the people saying "Man up":

1) Where did you come up with some an irritating expression? It sound ridiculous.
2) How many of you would be able to end something that's lasted that long straight off the bat? What if she hasn't cheated and you lose the relationship because she thinks you can't trust her anymore? It's obvious to us that communication will either make or break the relationship, but the fear of approaching the subject affects your judgement quite significantly.

Personally, I wish Magic all the best, and I really hope he finds happiness because I can't think of a worse position in a relationship to be in.
 
Even if she does have a 'valid' reason (bs!) for all this cr@p going on I say get rid now!! You're doing the right thing - there is no trust and lack of communication clearly but she is not communicating with you to no end! If my g/f was texting someone behind my back (and loads of them) I'd be seriously annoyed. If she had of told you all along then maybe the situation might of been different.
Heads up for tonight - stick to your guns and don't let her worm her way back in!!! In fact just say you want to end the relationship and say 'it's not working and I want to move on' end of!! Don't give her the satisfaction of explaining everything ;)
 
wordy said:
You live in the south of France and you want to sit infront your PC on a summers evening:confused:
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No I'm actually going to watch the football after a mountain bike ride through the vineyards, I just thought it was a funny mental image thinking that loads of people around the world where drinking beer and waiting for this guy to kick his cheating gf out and then tell us all about it.
 
TheBrooder said:
No I'm actually going to watch the football after a mountain bike ride through the vineyards.
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good man! :)

I had to ask as I love it there and am so jealous of you you wouldn't believe it.

If I win the Lottery I'm moving to St Paul De Vence :)
 
Richdog said:
Yes, i'm sure there is a 100% valid reason for her sending an absolute ton of texts to a man at work and then deleting them from her phone, both sent and received. And a valid reason for her asking things like "it's not working, why do we bother", and their sex life tailing off. And a valid reason for her MSN'ing her friends and family clearly making out that there is something in the pipeline that doesn't involve her boyfriend. And i'm sure there's a valid reason for a bloke ringing her all the time, especially as soon as the OP goes out of the house or any time he knows he's not going to be there. Etc etc etc.

God, how ****ing stupid are some of you people. Seriously.
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Quoted for 100% truth
 
I 5 starred the thread last night, as well as blogged about how I felt for the OP (no one get that wrong!) since I've been there and done that.
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I took the liberty to check out your blog. The illustrations are quality.
 
Sorry Dude, I've Been where you are, not 6 months ago me and my girl split. I didn't go looking through texts or anything, I just know her, and could tell. And I confronted her, and she spilled. Hense we are now no longer together, That's after 5 years.

My advice to you, Is try and not be emotional about it when talking to her. To this day I wish i'd handled the whole event with a lot more dignity than I did.

Stay dignified, Stay strong and stay in control of the situation. She's in the wrong, You've caught her. Don't let her twist anything.
 
A quid says even if he does raise the issue with her tonight the meerest suggestion of make-up sex on her part will totally absolve her of all blame and we will back to square one again.
 
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