I think she is cheating……

Fuzz · 7 Jul 2008 at 18:01

Have you?
I didn't see where you actually said whether she did or did not..

Surfer · 7 Jul 2008 at 19:29

She said nothing happened except seeing him at work and outside of work but still with other people around

there you go...bit of a bizarre thread really....

Richdog · 7 Jul 2008 at 19:31

Surfer said:
there you go...bit of a bizarre thread really....

What's bizzarre is that you've probably read the entire thread and yet are selecting one little bit of the story despite knowing full well that it's a lot more complicated than that.

Surfer · 7 Jul 2008 at 19:49

thats what she did though isnt it? What did i leave out? :confused:

Magic_x_uk · 7 Jul 2008 at 22:53

Just been sent a rather lengthy email from her, saying she is sorry for bringing another person into our relationship etc, sorry for this, sorry for that etc etc, hope we can still be friends, blah blah, i have written back telling her of my anger and outrage that I feel towards her now. I feel like smashing the keyboard into pieces.

I'm going, as I am so annoyed. Apologies from her afterwards are meaningless!

Doohickey · 7 Jul 2008 at 22:56

Magic_x_uk said:
Just been sent a rather lengthy email from her, saying she is sorry for bringing another person into our relationship etc, sorry for this, sorry for that etc etc, hope we can still be friends, blah blah, i have written back telling her of my anger and outrage that I feel towards her now. I feel like smashing the keyboard into pieces.

I'm going, as I am so annoyed. Apologies from her afterwards are meaningless!

What is 'bringing another person into our relationship' even supposed to mean? :\

I think you wrote that phrase earlier in the thread; is she just being polite in admitting that she cheated? Because that's an appalling way to try and put it softly, on her part

FUFTUB · 8 Jul 2008 at 09:48

She is basically saying 'I'm sorry you caught me out'

She isnt sorry about the fact she has hurt you, just sorry she has been caught. And she still hasnt actually got the guts to admit it outright! Brought someone else in to our relationship? Its not like she bought a pet kitten or something is it!

Rhys · 8 Jul 2008 at 10:51

Stop talking about it Magic_X. Your life will become boring as you just become a bitter person. Just 100% no contact is the only way you'll get better. Ask this thread to be locked and move on with your life.

.Lethal · 8 Jul 2008 at 10:59

FUFTUB said:
She is basically saying 'I'm sorry you caught me out'

She isnt sorry about the fact she has hurt you, just sorry she has been caught. And she still hasnt actually got the guts to admit it outright! Brought someone else in to our relationship? Its not like she bought a pet kitten or something is it!

100% right. And sounds like Magic knows that.

Magic_x_uk · 12 Jul 2008 at 08:12

Amazing, I wake up this morning with no contact from each other for day's and I get a anonymous text to my phone, via some internet website saying she is going away for the night and staying in a hotel with him.

Someone is trying to annoy me. Had both there names on it. Just what I needed to read.
:mad:

Neoni · 12 Jul 2008 at 08:35

Magic_x_uk said:
Amazing, I wake up this morning with no contact from each other for day's and I get a anonymous text to my phone, via some internet website saying she is going away for the night and staying in a hotel with him.

Someone is trying to annoy me. Had both there names on it. Just what I needed to read.

Why do you care?

Tom0 · 12 Jul 2008 at 08:39

Rhys said:
Stop talking about it Magic_X. Your life will become boring as you just become a bitter person. Just 100% no contact is the only way you'll get better. Ask this thread to be locked and move on with your life.

This.

Richdog · 12 Jul 2008 at 08:43

Neoni said:
Why do you care?

Why does he care? Are you entering a competition for Worlds Stupidest Question? If so I think you're in with a real shot at winning.

knip · 12 Jul 2008 at 08:45

Magic_x_uk said:
Someone is trying to annoy me. Had both there names on it. Just what I needed to read.

Someone out there is very sad to want to wind you up.
Its pathetic. Delete the txt now so you dont sit there reading it again and again and go out and do something today, dont sit in the house wondering and thinking about it, shes not worth your breath.

Neoni · 12 Jul 2008 at 08:46

Richdog said:
Why does he care? Are you entering a competition for Worlds Stupidest Question? If so I think you're in with a real shot at winning.

I certainly would not care to be honest.

Move on - what a bore just thinking about it constantly.

Slam62 · 12 Jul 2008 at 08:57

Well really if they send you harassing texts e-mails etc, you should keep them and keep a log of exactly when you received then, that way you take things further if you need to.

Slam62 · 12 Jul 2008 at 08:58

p.s. well done for sorting this out, sounds like you were well rid.

( |-| |2 ][ $ · 12 Jul 2008 at 09:11

Slam62 said:
Well really if they send you harassing texts e-mails etc, you should keep them and keep a log of exactly when you received then, that way you take things further if you need to.

It's either him or her sending you the message, someones trying to wind you up. Don't give any the satisfaction of letting it bother you.

UFX · 12 Jul 2008 at 09:20

Magic_x_uk said:
Amazing, I wake up this morning .......

I'd send one back, saying

Hope you like seconds

Richdog · 12 Jul 2008 at 09:28

UFX said:
I'd send one back, saying:

Hope you like my sloppy seconds, loser

Fixed, and win.