I think she is cheating……

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I would have thought that what they were doing together was nothing new. Just tell her that you don't want any more contact from her or her colleagues and you just want rid, stop pussyfooting around and make perople respect you. The anonymous texts won't come then.
 
dont let it bother you. Someone is being rather childish. as said just delete the text and forget it was even sent

keep busy so you dont start thinking bout the whole thing all over again
 
It's clearly one of them. Their relationship is based on the fact that you were originally there before it came to an end and she got "busted".

You, wether you like it or not, will still probably be a focal point of what they do as they are used to discussing you and sneaking around you etc. They are just trying to keep some injection of thrill into their sad relationship formed on lies.

You should be glad that you have no option of replying. TBH mate F them both and move on.
 
In a way, and I know it sounds harsh, but it's a good job you found out now than during the holiday or straight after.

I know it's not easy, and it can screw up your life, for example, women I've been out with in the past have screwed my head up with paranoia and jelousy, and my wife is not seeing that as I always question her. It's not something I mean to do, it's just an immediate reaction.
You'll get over her mate, and who knows, maybe someone will come along who actually knows how to show u respect and loyalty and who doesnt lie...

Just DON'T let this experience screw up your next relationship, mine is screwing mine up...

Anyways, all the best mate and glad you finally got to the bottom of it....
 
I only see him as angry and irritable. I haven't seen the girls side yet (though I did think he was Zefans girlfriend for a while because of his sig). :D
 
Dont answer any texts of any nature from her, or from anonymous sources.

All you are doing if you do so, is massaging her guilt to make her feel better. Delete her phone number off your phone, and all texts from her so you dont ever feel like texting her at a weak moment.

The most important part of getting over someone is to have absolutely no contact with them.
 
well mate...what can i say! Haven' posted on this thread yet, just been reading.

Truly awful, i know the exact feeling you had when you were sure that something was going on but couldn't confirm it. Worse is that she's hinted that she is going off with the other bloke, but hasn't said it so - like every other reader of this thread - you're left wondering if she actually did cheat or not.

The person who text you is an IDIOT and a LOSER. So spiteful and uncalled for. Either it's her, even if it's not and it's the bloke it just goes to show what a Dhead she's gone for. Doesn't reflest well on her, and another reason to be glad to be rid of her.

I've actually been having some relationship rubbish recently as well, and the advice in this thread has certainly helped so definitely take it on board.

- try and cut her out of your life, it's nearly impossibl to move on of you don't
- go out with your mates all the time
- go on a holiday and chill out
- take up a hobby
- have fun

Good luck
 
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