Left home and now screwed!

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Soldato
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Well i left home yesterday as it was a now or never situation! im currently in my old uni room (which im not allowed in!) no job any more, £190 to call my own and nowhere to stay!

well till september when i can move into my house! or maybe august when i can move into my mates and girlfriends's house (if they let me)

What should i do?
 
£190 a is a fir bit of cash. You should be able to find somewhere to live for £50 a week. Look for people wanting to sub let a room out. Even if it's just a box.
 
too many! but basically i just want to grow up and not be treated like a child, told what i can and cant do, stopped going out when i want to, made feel guilty if i do go out and arent back in time cuz my lil bro will miss me. n lots of other things
 
too many! but basically i just want to grow up and not be treated like a child, told what i can and cant do, stopped going out when i want to, made feel guilty if i do go out and arent back in time cuz my lil bro will miss me. n lots of other things

So you want to grow up so you left home with no money.. :rolleyes:

Sorry but grow up and go back to your parents it's only for a month or 2 untill you move into your new house.
 
1. You're a student, so see the Student Union Welfare Officer or similar about housing.

2. Go to job centre, get new job.

I do sympathise with the OP. Looking homelessness down the barrel is not a good place to be. (said that before I saw his reasons for leaving home :p )
 
Put it all on red- then do it again... you should be able to live until September then...

Or GO HOME?!
 
My mate got kicked out a few months back, and he managed to get a room at a YMCA building.. he wasn't paying much either.
 
I'm stating the obvious here but you don't appear to have planned this very well. Do you have anyone you can stay with at the moment since you seem to regard your parents as not being an option? Do you have anything you can sell to raise more cash? I don't know what rent is like in your area but you'll need money for food, transport etc.
 
Its basically im being controlled there and made to do what i dont want to do! i left unprepared bcuz it was i leave then or id end up going to uni n coming back home every weekend cuz my mum wants me too, missing out on a lot of uni experinece!
 
Its basically im being controlled there and made to do what i dont want to do! i left unprepared bcuz it was i leave then or id end up going to uni n coming back home every weekend cuz my mum wants me too, missing out on a lot of uni experinece!

Once you move to uni how can she make you come home every weekend. She can't.

EIther find somewhere to live or move home.
 
Its basically im being controlled there and made to do what i dont want to do! i left unprepared bcuz it was i leave then or id end up going to uni n coming back home every weekend cuz my mum wants me too, missing out on a lot of uni experinece!

if you can leave home and she can't make you come back, why would she be able to make you come back at weekends from uni :confused:
 
she just comes and picks me n my sis up!

I know this is for totally selfish reasons, the fact i want to live my life for me n not every else but its what i want to do.

n cuz i told her i want to come home when i wnat to come home, thats why she cant get me back
 
What the hell, what's the problem with living with your parents for another month or two, stop being a total plank.
 
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