Left home and now screwed!

ConTRo13R · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:50

AcidHell2 said:
He hasn't got any mates willing to take him in. .

u read any of my post or u here to **** on me?

Glaucus · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:51

ConTRo13R said:
u read any of my post or u here to **** on me?

I read your posts, you've said you may be able to stay with some mates in august. It's not august yet.

Welshy · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:51

Edited before I get my wrist slapped...

Janesy B · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:52

ConTRo13R said:
I dont want to hear what im hearing, i know what im going to do, just want to make sure im not missing anything! get job, get place to stay, i think thats more than grown up if i can do it on my own, i bet you lot all gots daddy to pay for a lot of things havent you! me never! everything i have i paid for with hard graft and determination so dont you all be telling me im pathetic and not grown up

If you have a read round the forums i think 90% of people here work and buy their own stuff. Can i ask what hard graft have you been doing to only leave £190 to your name. just face it you're a homless student with nothing to fall back on. most are sensible enough to wait till they can afford to move out bofore doing so no matter how annoying it was living at home. Lets face it you weren't being beaten etc and theres a lot more people out there in a worse situation at all. You are behaving like a total idiot and that comment has wiped away the tiny bit of sympathy i had for you. Stop being a bitch and go home.

Also where are you posting from?

bigredshark · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:53

ConTRo13R said:
Not listening to advice because ** calling me pathetic and im not going home! the only advice given so far!

So what do you expect exactly? You got in a strop and did something really dumb without any kind of plan and you're rejecting the sensible advice to swallow your pride/ego and sort it out. What kind of advice are you expecting???

Killa_ken · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:53

I understand he shouldn't of left home in the first place, but it is quite obvious he does not want to go home. None of you understand his true circumstances and if he says it's not an option to go home. its not an option.

There is no need to go round calling him immature and a plank for leaving, what does it achieve? nothing.

Janesy B · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:53

Killa_ken said:
You lot are such a bunch of idiots sometimes. He HAS LEFT HOME. He is asking for advice on how to live, not the spanish inquisition as to why he's left home and how he should go home. HE HAS LEFT, just give him the sodding advice he is after instead of being a bunch of pricks.

The only advice is to go back home. £190 gets you nowhere. FACT.

Killa_ken said:
I understand he shouldn't of left home in the first place, but it is quite obvious he does not want to go home. None of you understand his true circumstances and if he says it's not an option to go home. its not an option.

There is no need to go round calling him immature and a plank for leaving, what does it achieve? nothing.

Hell i hate living at home and although i'm earning a regular wage i dont feel i have enough to be fully independant so until i get a better job i'm going to have to put up with living at home. That is the adult thing, not to burn all bridges and leave yourself without a pot to **** in because of your 'pride'.

Azagoth · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:54

Here's some advice! Sell that decent system you have in your signature and put the money towards putting yourself up somewhere while you sort your pathetic life out.

If you really do need a PC to keep in touch with people, then invest in a cheap laptop for the time being.

Robert · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:55

Killa_ken said:
I understand he shouldn't of left home in the first place, but it is quite obvious he does not want to go home. None of you understand his true circumstances and if he says it's not an option to go home. its not an option.

There is no need to go round calling him immature and a plank for leaving, what does it achieve? nothing.

He is professing to be mature/wanting to be all grown up. He needs a reality check, he isn't.

If you read my earlier posts - they were civil. It's only when he started blatantly refusing advice and being a weener that things got ugly.

Converge · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:56

Killa_ken said:
There is no need to go round calling him immature and a plank for leaving, what does it achieve? nothing.

Might give him a reality check?

Glaucus · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:57

Killa_ken said:
There is no need to go round calling him immature and a plank for leaving, what does it achieve? nothing.

From the person calling everyone *****

bigredshark · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:57

Azagoth said:
Here's some advice! Sell that decent system you have in your signature and put the money towards putting yourself up somewhere while you sort your pathetic life out.

If you really do need a PC to keep in touch with people, then invest in a cheap laptop for the time being.

Good advice...find everything worth money, go to cash convertors...

Sweetloaf · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:58

ConTRo13R said:
too many! but basically i just want to grow up and not be treated like a child, told what i can and cant do, stopped going out when i want to, made feel guilty if i do go out and arent back in time cuz my lil bro will miss me. n lots of other things

Hang on, let's get this straight, you won't take your parents advise and by the sounds of things they are right, you can't have endless cash and go out all the time, I guess you are finding that out now with £190 to live off all summer.

Secondly you are obviously not mature enough to make your own way in life yet, it's nothing to be ashamed of but think about it, you won't listen to your parents and yet you ask advise on a computer shop forum. What is wrong with making your own decisions?

Go home and stop fretting. The first step to becoming an adult is being big enough to accept that your parents are right sometimes.

ConTRo13R · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:58

Janesy B said:
If you have a read round the forums i think 90% of people here work and buy their own stuff.
Also where are you posting from?

But most of u are a lot older than me, possibly already gone through uni n have stable jobs n lives, me on the other hand hasnt, and am trying to acheive that! so get of ** high horse n see it form my point of view! with going home NOT i repeat NOT an option!

Janesy B · 19 Jul 2008 at 17:58

bigredshark said:
Good advice...find everything worth money, go to cash convertors...

He's blatantly not prepared to do it. He'll be outside a shop in his litle cardboard box cradling a £1500 PC. OP deserves what he gets just on the basis that he's a total dick.

Robert · 19 Jul 2008 at 18:01

ConTRo13R said:
But most of u are a lot older than me, possibly already gone through uni n have stable jobs n lives, me on the other hand hasnt, and am trying to acheive that! so get of ** high horse n see it form my point of view! with going home NOT i repeat NOT an option!

** you couldn't be any more incorrect. There are many people on here that are your age.

Personally I have finished uni - but I don't have a job. So I suggest that YOU get off your high horse.

Oh and I still live with my parents and have no real plans to move out as I'm happy here. I'll go when they kick me out

Killa_ken said:
your a cool dude.

Obviously cooler than you.

Glaucus · 19 Jul 2008 at 18:01

what's great is ConTRo13R posting in the dole thread and Codec posting in this thread. It did make me chuckle..

Killa_ken · 19 Jul 2008 at 18:01

AcidHell2 said:
From the person calling everyone *****

He wasnt acting like one, he was asking for simple advice. You lot on the other hand, acting like a lynching mob.

frosty03 · 19 Jul 2008 at 18:02

ConTRo13R said:
I dont want to hear what im hearing, i know what im going to do, just want to make sure im not missing anything! get job, get place to stay, i think thats more than grown up if i can do it on my own, i bet you lot all gots daddy to pay for a lot of things havent you! me never! everything i have i paid for with hard graft and determination so dont you all be telling me im pathetic and not grown up

You're pathetic and not grown up.... here's why...

You didnt really think it through BEFORE you acted. If you had posted BEFORE you actually left home it would have shown a hint of "maturity".

Secondly, you are somewhere you shouldnt be, something which you yourself admitted in your very first post. I would regard it as "theft", since you're helping yourself (to shelter,electricity, etc) when you're not entitled to it. Again, not a sign of "grown up" behaviour.

It all seems to me that you walked out in a teenage "i'm all grown up, dont tell me what to do" moment and are now "slightly"? regretting it.... or crapping it.... the latter would be a sign of some maturity since that implies insight to the potential troubles ahead....

Oh yes, how ARE you managing to get online?

nyzrox · 19 Jul 2008 at 18:02

ConTRo13R said:
But most of u are a lot older than me, possibly already gone through uni n have stable jobs n lives, me on the other hand hasnt, and am trying to acheive that! so get of ** high horse n see it form my point of view! with going home NOT i repeat NOT an option!

surely that shows they have a lot more life experiance then you and maybe just maybe know what there talking about?