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This thread has brought back many fond memories.They're pre-my dry spell with my girlfriend... Four months without sex isn't good.
This is a whole thread on its own, but you need to talk to your girlfriend and try and sort out the issue.
I've tried and tried, but you're forgetting one crucial factor... She's a girl.
But all joking aside, you're right. But I have tried and it's just a case of waiting for her.. AGAIN.
Um, im a girl and I dont think I could go 4 months without sex unless there was some sort of problem.
It was a joke, sorry.
But you're right, there is a problem.. But I've tried to speak to her about it so many times, I've come to the conclusion that I have to just wait until she wants to again... Which could be another four months.
But you're right, there is a problem.. But I've tried to speak to her about it so many times, I've come to the conclusion that I have to just wait until she wants to again... Which could be another four months.
It was a joke, sorry.
But you're right, there is a problem.. But I've tried to speak to her about it so many times, I've come to the conclusion that I have to just wait until she wants to again... Which could be another four months.
Tis a difficult one, cos im the sort of person who when I have a problem I want it sorted there and then, I wouldnt let it go on and on for months.
Hope you work things out.
(and how in the hell did a City Link thread turn into me dishing out sex advice
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I've tried and tried, but you're forgetting one crucial factor... She's a girl.
But all joking aside, you're right. But I have tried and it's just a case of waiting for her.. AGAIN.
Dump her.
God, if she was always wanting everything sorted out there and then, things would certainly move along a lot quicker. I'm VERY patient though, so I'll probably see this through until she's happy again. Seems like something like this this happens all to often though.Tis a difficult one, cos im the sort of person who when I have a problem I want it sorted there and then, I wouldnt let it go on and on for months.
Hope you work things out.
(and how in the hell did a City Link thread turn into me dishing out sex advice
As for her cheating on me, thanks for the sound advice.
I'm 100% that she would never do that to me though. 
God, if she was always wanting everything sorted out there and then, things would certainly move along a lot quicker. I'm VERY patient though, so I'll probably see this through until she's happy again. Seems like something like this this happens all to often though.
Sounds like your too patient and she knows that, and for whatever reason shes gone off it, its still not a normal thing. Are you prepared to spend the rest of your life with her having no sex?
Or is it something like you only turn on the charm and the affection when you want some sex, so shes feeling unappreciated unless you want some horizontal tango?
If you were both happy not having sex then it wouldnt be an issue but from the sounds of it your not happy, and are instead sticking your head in the sand and hoping it will get better eventually. (which it wont)
Im not trying to force you to do anything but the very fact you've mentioned it means its a problem for you, and unless she has some sort of medical problem (which again would need sorting) you really need to sit down and have a chat with her, say the future of your relationship rests on this.
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God, if she was always wanting everything sorted out there and then, things would certainly move along a lot quicker. I'm VERY patient though, so I'll probably see this through until she's happy again. Seems like something like this this happens all to often though.
doormat?
As for her cheating on me, thanks for the sound advice.
you sure
You're right.. I do let her walk over me when it comes to things like this, but I'm 100% sure it's not because she feels under appreciated. I drive over and see her every chance I have, I buy her flowers, chocolates, wine, champagne, food... Her mp3 player broke a while back, so I bought her a new one.. I take her out to eat, take her to the cinema, etc... CONSTANTLY complementing her and telling her how much I love her (which I really do, even if it is fake teenage love). I really do put a heck of a lot of effort into the relationship, and into her..
You are right, I'm just too much of a push over when it comes to things like this. I've told her how much I'm not liking it, but nothing seems to change.
Dang.. The amount of offers I've had as well.
Thank you for the advice as well knip. It's nice to have a female amoungst all of these juiced up men's men.
Thank you for the advice as well knip. It's nice to have a female amoungst all of these juiced up men's men.
No worries, they let girls on here for a reason you know.
I guess its kind of just speaking from experience in a way, I have a medical problem which sometimes makes sex difficult but that doesnt mean I have ever ever gone off it, heck I felt like even more of a freak when I couldnt do it because its a perfectly normal thing to do.
I have also been in the situation where I have a bloke who did everything for me, but I just didnt fancy him, so I didnt want him near me in that way (which again isnt normal for me)
Im single at the moment so im on a drought, and ive got to the point now where im not missing it, I know for a fact though that if someone was around, I sure as hell wouldnt be waiting months between "activity"
Sounds like you either need to walk away from this, or grow a bit of a back bone (im not saying that to knock you) and tell her how it is. You might end up single but then you kind of are at the moment apart from the companionship.
Trust me, women dont always find it attractive to be put up on a pedestal, and endlessly worshipped and adored. Sometimes they want the man to be a bit more realistic.
(hope that makes sense)
And you thought it was wise to post that here?
Shuddup, like I said im not missing it right now, and im trying to help Naffa out so hush yer mouth
HaAnd you thought it was wise to post that here?
Crikey.. If that's true then I should put a brakes on a bit. Maybe I do worship her too much. We've been together for two years, eight days and one month so I'm used to being with her, it makes the prospect of being firm with her about the future of our relationship all the more daunting..
You're definitely right about my back bone being non existent though. When she gets back from holiday, I'll see if she still doesn't want to sleep with me
() and take it from there. I have told her that it's getting ever more difficult (I haven't told her that I've got two people lined up in case it does all get too much (yes, I know it's wrong)).RIGHT, THIS IS IT. NAFFA GROWS A BACK BONE AND ASKS HIS GIRLFRIEND FOR SEX.
Thank God for CityLink's poor track record, or this thread would never have turned up.
Thanks for the help knip, you may have saved/ended my relationship.