Bugger. Looks like we are stuck for the moment then. That's the thing with these 1333mhz fsb cpu's. 6400 ram is'nt really quick enough for them as you will soon run out of headroom when clocking. You could try increasing the ram voltage and slackening off the timings to see if you can get it stable but it's quite a compromise. Personally, for now i would get stable at 3.6-3.7Ghz, i would expect your ram to be able to do 824 mhz as that's only a small increase. At that speed i would also tweak the voltages to see how low i could get them before losing stability. It's up to you then if you want to get faster ram to get this up to 4Ghz.
This stuff is very good by the way. The board should be good for around 470mhz on the fsb according to several reviews.