In your opinion, which is the nicer gesture?

Bes · 30 Aug 2008 at 22:47

So I met the current GF when I was working in Madrid about a year ago now.

She is from Brazil and is coming to live with me in the UK later this month.

She will be arriving through Madrid and we will be flying to the UK together (I am going out to Madrid to meet her).

I am thinking that we will have to spend a night in Madrid, so looking to take her out somewhere nice for food....

Do you think it is a nicer gesture to take her to:

A) The place where we met (Tapas restaurant, very average food & cheap, but obviously has some memories)

B) An absolutely superb Scandanavian restaurant we discovered where we had awesome food- proably the best we had in the city

Youstolemyname · 30 Aug 2008 at 22:49

C) Room service and a night of swwwwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeeeet lovin!

Bes · 30 Aug 2008 at 22:50

Moses99p said:
A for lunch, B for dinner \o/

The flight back.

An Easy Jet toilet? :eek:

GeForce · 30 Aug 2008 at 22:50

I think she'd appreciate either, each has its own appeal

slambo69 · 30 Aug 2008 at 22:54

Both if you can.

Steeps · 30 Aug 2008 at 22:57

Bes said:
An Easy Jet toilet?

Only other place with a lockable door is the cockpit, not sure the pilot would approve.

willhub · 30 Aug 2008 at 22:58

Number A

Thats what I'd do if I was in your boots anyway.

Kemik · 30 Aug 2008 at 23:02

Are they really close together? B for mains, A for desert?

tuffty747 · 30 Aug 2008 at 23:03

How many times did you go to Number B?

I would say Number A though, bring back the memories, you don't exactly go there every day do you?

Akira · 30 Aug 2008 at 23:03

willhub said:
Number A

Gackt · 30 Aug 2008 at 23:16

A, then propose in B later.

Tom0 · 30 Aug 2008 at 23:17

I'd go with A too

Talbs13 · 30 Aug 2008 at 23:18

How is she living in the UK? How did you sort out VISA? She studying? Or you are married now?

Tom0 · 30 Aug 2008 at 23:19

Talbs13 said:
How is she living in the UK? How did you sort out VISA? She studying? Or you are married now?

Dive in with the personal questions, dont mess about. Tap the OP down too he may have a gun, check his taxes for the past year while you're here - get that information!

Bes · 30 Aug 2008 at 23:20

Talbs13 said:
How is she living in the UK? How did you sort out VISA? She studying? Or you are married now?

She's staying as an illegal immigrant. Problem with that?

Bes · 30 Aug 2008 at 23:21

Nah just kidding- she is on a student visa

Talbs13 · 30 Aug 2008 at 23:22

LOL Tom0. Sorry if it was too personal but my i am trying to find a way for my girlfriend from Russia to move to the UK and just wondered how you did it. No worries if you dont want to answer.

Relax.

Talbs13 · 30 Aug 2008 at 23:23

Bes said:
Nah just kidding- she is on a student visa

And how easy was that to obtain? I am also trying to sort out Student VISA.

unwashed potato! · 30 Aug 2008 at 23:24

tbh just go with whatever you think she'd like more. it seems as though you are trying way too hard to be the sweet guy and not the natural guy who does what he thinks is best

Talbs13 · 30 Aug 2008 at 23:26

Oh and on subject;

My answer is A. When you arrive in the UK, in the evening take her out to a very nice resturaunt and take her home for a bit of fun.