Would you have sex with someone you weren't attracted to?

Jez said:
I wonder how much of it is a case of cant have so therefore tell yourself you dont want?
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I think some will be but I think it's also a case of what sex is about for you, if it's all about love and feelings then fair enough you'll probably be attracted to your loved one. If it's about the physical act and they're attractive enough that you can do it, then why not.
 
Abraham said:
it's not always need for sex though, a fumble under the sheets can be good fun without them neccesarilly being your cup of tea, it's not like you're settling down with them
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For some, but not all.

I've learnt over the years that I don't do casual sex/one night stands.

If that means less sex for me, then so be it, no great loss as I find that sort of sex totally unfulfilling.

Would be a lie to say I'm not a bit envious of those who can, especially with a man-whore of an older brother having bedding a silly amount of smoking hot women over the years, but if it's a double-edged sword meaning even uggers get a poke, then I can live with the loss ;)
 
Abraham said:
I think some will be but I think it's also a case of what sex is about for you, if it's all about love and feelings then fair enough you'll probably be attracted to your loved one. If it's about the physical act and they're attractive enough that you can do it, then why not.
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I think most people would say they would class the two differently. Having random sex with a girl is great but thats all it is, it is not the same at all as being with an actual partner.
 
I had a drunken night with the girl over the road from me a while back :D. I'm not attracted to her but shes not an ugly bird so i'd say yes i would, aslong as they aren't ugly in my eyes
 
[TW]Fox;12488251 said:
I suspect one day you'll change your mind. Whilst I can't say I've ever found the idea of sex 'repulsive' for quite some time I just wasn't really that bothered by the idea of it. Then one day something changes and you'll have a totally different outcome. I met somebody a few years ago and since then there isn't such a thing as too much sex :p

Even if you doubt it will, your time will come. I'm hardly 'Mr Awesome Personality' and I managed it. If I can, you will also.
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Well maybe, but the fact that I've never even had a remote sexual interest in people as it is 'normal' to as you are growing up and after you have grown up, I don't see why it would change.

There's many asexual couples who are interested in each other romantically/emotionally, but never have sex, and never display any desire to have sex with one another. Obviously they must have met the or a 'right' person for them otherwise they wouldn't be together for such a long time, they wouldn't be getting married...etc, so it's obvious that it doesn't necessarily mean I've not met the right person.

Also asexuality has been oberseved in animals. There was one study on Rams which found a small percentage of them to be asexual with no imbalances or problems with hormones and so on. Are you saying those Rams simply didn't meet the right sheep?

I don't believe it's a temporary perception, it's just the way I am, no different to homosexuality, heterosexuality or bisexuality and all the other many forms of sexuality.

I know it's hard for you to understand and why you would question it, but telling me that I'll change someday is actually quite offensive, akin to telling a young homosexual for example that it's just a phase and that they'll grow out of it.
 
No offense in saying this. But see a doctor, Yeah i understand it could be perfectly fine not needing sex, but it's also possibly due to a lack of a little something in your body.

Like I said, I'm not saying lol you dont like sex you must be ill, I'm saying it's a possibility you're lacking a little something
 
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