Is it wrong not to like clubbing?

bigmouse64 said:
You're obviously a very funny person.
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That's what they say!

What I mean is, I just think people who are in clubs tend to be very fake. Don't ask me why, I just do. I don't mean people go out to start fights, I just mean, if you make friends with someone in a club, would they be a proper friend, if anything ever happened, ever, not just in a club.
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Ah well thats not the same as what you were implying. I don't make friends in clubs as I'm sure most other people also don't as well.

msm722 said:
I'm pretty confident that most people go out for some action. I'm not against clubbing as I go. The only reason I'm not in this group is because I have a GF. I think it's fair to say that the majority of people are looking to get lucky.
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You say that as if being single and looking for a partner (merely sexual, or more) is a bad thing. I don't go clubbing to pull. Thats merely a very big cherry on the cake.
 
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Scuzi said:
I have always hated clubbing. They're usually full of idiots who can't handle their drink, out to show off their new white trainers or new jeans that came with sandpaper.
I still endure it on occasions though because most of my friends do it. I find that drinking myself into inebriation makes it bareable.

I'm much more at home at a rock/metal gig for musical kicks or propping up a bar if out for a drink.
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Pretty much sums me up too, it's been a long time since I was in a club.
 
bigmouse64 said:
What I mean is, I just think people who are in clubs tend to be very fake. Don't ask me why, I just do. I don't mean people go out to start fights, I just mean, if you make friends with someone in a club, would they be a proper friend, if anything ever happened, ever, not just in a club.
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If you've never been to a nightclub your frame of reference isn't worth a terrible amount in the judgement unfortunately. Some people I've met in clubs I've met subsequently and have become friends with who I see outwith clubbing (usually because we have friends in common) but you're right if you are suggesting it is hard to hold any sort of conversation beyond the most passing courtesies in a club.

msm722 said:
I'm pretty confident that most people go out for some action. I'm not against clubbing as I go. The only reason I'm not in this group is because I have a GF. I think it's fair to say that the majority of people are looking to get lucky.
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Sometimes yes, sometimes no. For me it depends on the night and how I'm feeling, I'm usually quite happy for something to happen but sometimes I simply have no interest and I just want to have a laugh with my mates and dance badly for a while.
 
I don't like the clubs I've been to because I'm geeky-looking and not very confident in situations like that. I get my kicks elsewhere. Do what you gotta do to have a good time, it's your life after all!
 
I dont like clubs nor do I like pubs. I also dont drink.

I have on occasions been to pubs with friends and its normally OK. I leave before the heavy drinking and drunkeness starts so its not too bad.
I have been to a club before and it was tolerable. But given the choice I would not go to a Pub or a Club as I like doing other things much more :)

If I am going out to socialise, going out for a meal either at friends house or at a resturaunt is my thing - I like a quiet atmosphere.

Just to add, I am in a long term relationship so its true you can meet girls by not liking pubs and clubs or internet dating!
 
I often wonder how some people OCUK get through life when needing to ask such questions.

Its like everyone needs reassurance on "being different".

Heres an idea WE ARE NOT ALL THE SAME. Move on.
 
I love clubbing but it has to be the right club with the right crowd and a good DJ. When people complain of not being able to hear themselves think it's mainly because the club/DJ doesn't have a clue. Go to a decent club and you will find you hardly have to raise your voice to hold a conversation and you won't wake up with ringing ears either, even though the music is plenty loud to enjoy it.

Good clubs are ones that attract people who are there for the music, not to get mortal and have a fight. Unfortunately there is a lack of good clubs in this country but they can be found if you look.

I'd much rather have a night in the pub than go to a bad club, but I'd go to a good club over anything else on offer.
 
Gaverick said:
Go to a decent club and you will find you hardly have to raise your voice to hold a conversation and you won't wake up with ringing ears either, even though the music is plenty loud to enjoy it.
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Too true, I really hate it when ****** clubs balst their crap speakers really loud!

Fully star out swearing.
 
I don't like clubbing, not my cup of tea.

I pefer going to pub more relaxed and layed back :)

I don't like getting drunk, but I drink 2-3 pints... I don't see the fun in it, I don't want to end up with some dog the morning after either and catch some STDs
 
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