To be fair most of them have probably learned this to be true through experience.
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To be fair most of them have probably learned this to be true through experience.
Cos most english guys 18-35 are complete ****ers.
I blame Disney et al.
Tended to find majority of the fit birds abroad dont even know they are, and are so cool and easy to approach, went on a stag a couple of years ago to Vilnius and the clubs and bars had some of the fittest chicks we'd ever seen, they were ten to a penny and all up for a laugh and no hastle, went out round Leeds the following weekend and maybe saw 2 or 3 birds that were comparable over the entire night, most of the other ones who were fit were just like up their own a*** arrogant waste of timers to be honest
I've organised a stag in vilnius too and couldn't agree more about how fit, fun and friendly all the women there are (and no I'm not talking about the ones you give money to
). I don't particularly agree with much of the rest of the comments in this thread!Yeah, thats a good thing. But at least this girl has a good starting point compared to the last girls I was with. And not just the weight issue lol.
Nnngghhh, am having a hard time trying not to take any of this personally! Bear with me...
I've been up to a size 18 rear about 18 months ago, when we discovered I had something wrong with me and now with some medical help I'm somewhere between a 12 and a 14 (I'm 5'4"). I'm sortof still edging downwards but thankfully I've hit a point where I couldn't really care less about whether I lose any more weight or stagnate at this size.
I've always been one to walk, cycle, dance, etc. and rarely pig out (though I can't let myself to go a restaurant and NOT have exactly what I fancy - what else is eating out for, if not treating yourself?).
Because of the above, I'm often a little confused about what I think to people's preferences in discussions like this - i.e. do I stick up for the fat people, as I was once one myself? Or do I think fat people should revise their eating/exercise levels or go get checked out if their lifestyle is otherwise healthy?
Hmmm.
I'm lucky that having been big, I think I can see two sides of the same coin - it was VERY frustrating being stuck inside an ever-expanding layer of fat while nothing I did ever made any difference. I'd occasionally sigh about my weight, and people would ask me if I'd cut out the snacks, fizzy drinks, sugar in tea/coffee, desserts, junk food, did I exercise, etc. My reply would be "don't snack, not keen on fizzy pop, have sweetener in my coffees, never have dessert, usually cook food from scratch, go dancing twice a week, walk miles around town at the weekend".
"Oh."
But you can't change people's personal aesthetic preferences. I'd just say to some of you that you can't always infer someone's daily activities or their mentality from their size.
As for the foreign/British debate - well being half Swedish I guess I'm the best of both - but I consider myself as (if not more sometimes, am quite the patriot) British than the next girl and it certainly doesn't affect my ability to be reasonable, kind, loving and generous. I /do/ have bouts of female irrationality and do occasionally feel a bit rotten but generally I'll warn about/apologise for the state I'm in so he's not left feeling bad about it.
Mind you, if it's his fault, he'll know it already, and a gentle "Umm, I'm not sure I like what you did there.." (hey, it's a new relationship, everything's a little tentative!) is enough to solicit the apology and make amends.
Oh, and I don't seem to have a preference for male shape! I thought I preferred the slightly more stocky type, but lanky and thin is doing me very well right now - saying that, it's not his looks that got me hooked.
I've been up to a size 18 rear about 18 months ago, when we discovered I had something wrong with me and now with some medical help I'm somewhere between a 12 and a 14 (I'm 5'4"). I'm sortof still edging downwards but thankfully I've hit a point where I couldn't really care less about whether I lose any more weight or stagnate at this size.
I've always been one to walk, cycle, dance, etc. and rarely pig out (though I can't let myself to go a restaurant and NOT have exactly what I fancy - what else is eating out for, if not treating yourself?).
Because of the above, I'm often a little confused about what I think to people's preferences in discussions like this - i.e. do I stick up for the fat people, as I was once one myself? Or do I think fat people should revise their eating/exercise levels or go get checked out if their lifestyle is otherwise healthy?
Hmmm.
I'm lucky that having been big, I think I can see two sides of the same coin - it was VERY frustrating being stuck inside an ever-expanding layer of fat while nothing I did ever made any difference. I'd occasionally sigh about my weight, and people would ask me if I'd cut out the snacks, fizzy drinks, sugar in tea/coffee, desserts, junk food, did I exercise, etc. My reply would be "don't snack, not keen on fizzy pop, have sweetener in my coffees, never have dessert, usually cook food from scratch, go dancing twice a week, walk miles around town at the weekend".
"Oh."
But you can't change people's personal aesthetic preferences. I'd just say to some of you that you can't always infer someone's daily activities or their mentality from their size.
As for the foreign/British debate - well being half Swedish I guess I'm the best of both - but I consider myself as (if not more sometimes, am quite the patriot) British than the next girl and it certainly doesn't affect my ability to be reasonable, kind, loving and generous. I /do/ have bouts of female irrationality and do occasionally feel a bit rotten but generally I'll warn about/apologise for the state I'm in so he's not left feeling bad about it.
Mind you, if it's his fault, he'll know it already, and a gentle "Umm, I'm not sure I like what you did there.." (hey, it's a new relationship, everything's a little tentative!) is enough to solicit the apology and make amends.
Oh, and I don't seem to have a preference for male shape! I thought I preferred the slightly more stocky type, but lanky and thin is doing me very well right now - saying that, it's not his looks that got me hooked.
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Thats the thing, most chicks around Leeds and places think they're princesses even the ugly ones lol
Not only fat ppl guys, ppl thats disabled needs love too...
Im 28, male and in a wheelchair, and I would say I was quite attractive but when your in a chair, that dont make a blind bit of diff to all you females out there. Cos females automatically thinks im not capable for sex when I go out fri or sat nights,, so I dont get a look in. lol
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Im 28, male and in a wheelchair, and I would say I was quite attractive but when your in a chair, that dont make a blind bit of diff to all you females out there. Cos females automatically thinks im not capable for sex when I go out fri or sat nights,, so I dont get a look in. lol
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I like big butts, and I cannot lie.
Seriously, though, I was at a wedding recently and the preist made a good point about a lasting relationship is not based on to use his words "bedroom gymnasitics". I did agree as good looks are all too transient and if that is what your relationship is based on then it will, too be transient.
If, however, you are just after a quickie then it might be different
Seriously, though, I was at a wedding recently and the preist made a good point about a lasting relationship is not based on to use his words "bedroom gymnasitics". I did agree as good looks are all too transient and if that is what your relationship is based on then it will, too be transient.
If, however, you are just after a quickie then it might be different
Do what my sister's mate did: wear a t-shirt saying 'Yes, I can still have sex!' - he is axle-deep in fanny.
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Then I'm happy being a gripper!
If people are content being large, leave them to it, as with skinny people - it's their choice, not ours, despite whether it's for the right reasons or not.
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If your talking about having a serious relationship with someone, surely you can't if you aren't sexually attracted to them
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I concur!
Called love-blindness.
Someone can become more attractive to you as your emotional level with that person rises.
Is usually why when you see an ex after quite a while and think "christ, did I really go out with that" when infact she hasn't changed physically, just your perception.
All IME ofcourse.
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Called love-blindness.
Someone can become more attractive to you as your emotional level with that person rises.
Is usually why when you see an ex after quite a while and think "christ, did I really go out with that" when infact she hasn't changed physically, just your perception.
All IME ofcourse.
I'm liking the scientific explanation for that