Why are 30 somethings desperate to tie down?

I'm 23 years old.
I want a girlfriend to go out and have fun with. That isn't necessarily going to a bar and getting bladdered though. I've already had a lifetime of that.

Older women want a man to provide stability in their life (Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and moneyyyyy).
To me these people are selfish and basically wanted to do what they liked, suddenly realised they wanted a baby and have to pin down a hubby to provide for her and the brat. They're not really interested in what kind of person you are, just that you can provide for her.

As mentioned earlier, they're a depreciating asset. Unless you have a real connection with them and actually get along, they'll dump you as soon as the sprog is out of the womb along with the child support shouting "I can make it on my own!"... With your money.
 
Yamahahahahaha said:
I'm 23 years old.
I want a girlfriend to go out and have fun with. That isn't necessarily going to a bar and getting bladdered though. I've already had a lifetime of that.

Older women want a man to provide stability in their life (Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and moneyyyyy).
To me these people are selfish and basically wanted to do what they liked, suddenly realised they wanted a baby and have to pin down a hubby to provide for her and the brat. They're not really interested in what kind of person you are, just that you can provide for her.

As mentioned earlier, they're a depreciating asset. Unless you have a real connection with them and actually get along, they'll dump you as soon as the sprog is out of the womb along with the child support shouting "I can make it on my own!"... With your money.
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Have too agree with you on that one.
 
johnny6 said:
There comes a point in every mans life when you think to yourself.

I could go clubbing but its cold and raining outside and theres something on TV which I really wanted to watch. Normally about dangerous jobs or massive buildings or something.
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I wish people would stop secretly filming me!:mad:
 
I sware I heard that it's highly inadvised to have a child after the age of about 34/35, because there's a lot more that can go wrong. It's probably a lot more complicated than that, but just what I heard in a Year 11 biology lesson back in the day :)
 
johnny6 said:
There comes a point in every mans life when you think to yourself.

I could go clubbing but its cold and raining outside and theres something on TV which I really wanted to watch. Normally about dangerous jobs or massive buildings or something.
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So true :D
 
I married at 27. Do it when you are ready. Sure you can still be foot loose and fancy free in your 30's but life isn't all about drinking and clubbing.

I'm still the crazy, impulsive, opinionated, self-assure person I was I just happen to have chosen a woman to share my life with me!
 
dont intent to have kids or grow up any time soon enjoying my life atm just how i want it to be, free single with a bit of cash!

done all the GF have house settle down at night crap before and it lasted good 3 years but dont intend to do anytime soon for a long long long time!
 
Im 31 and I feel i should start to settle down, a lot of my mates have settled down, so I gues some of it is peer pressure, but I do really want kids etc, although I like my independance and what not, im not really one to go out clubbing and on the pull, so I guess the next logical step is to get married and go and buy a house in suburbia,have 2.4 kids,and buy a dog.
 
I just don't understand how anyone can want to stay single for ever. You miss out on things you just don't get from anything else.
 
DAvE18 said:
Im staying single forever, women are a pain in my spending habbits and ability to do what I want lol
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Well to me son, it looks like you don't have a choice anyway.
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[TW]Fox;12776152 said:
I just don't understand how anyone can want to stay single for ever. You miss out on things you just don't get from anything else.
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I don't think anyone really truly wants to be single (well, not many people), not deep down, I find when I start to question people that say this it's often due to bad relationships that they've had in the past, I've had a few bad breakups myself and it's put me off woman for a while now, I know they are not all the same but still you get burned a few times and you start to think your better off on your own, and then you get too used to it, sometimes to the extent that you think well I like to be with someone again but you've became so independent and used to doing what you want when you want it makes it hard making that leap back into a relationship that is based on comprises again.
 
I'm 29 but want to spend a good 10 more years with my GF travelling and having fun. There is so much I want to do and see and having kids would financially cripple me and end our lifestyle.

Been in relationship for 4 years but we do not smother each other at all, I still go to the pub with my mates every Friday, weekends away and go to gigs or whenever. She does the same, we have the best of both worlds......but I know this cannot go on forever.
 
I wanted to settle down from my early 20's but after a few failed long term relationships I'm enjoying single life for the first time in 16 years. 33 next Month and have no plans to settle down anytime soon.

Saying that I've just aquired a friend with benefits so it's all good at the moment.
 
I’m 26 & have a poor job (in a bakery) have a fiancée almost been together 4 years now, & settling down is quite imminent , BUT i want to get a better job before i do this so i have 4 years to go :P
 
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