Anyone on here lose a good friend to a woman?

RobRX-7 said:
I remember watching a british film with danny dyer in, and he said "why is it that your mates act like they've only known you 10 mins when they meet a new girl" So true that is!
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Football Factory is the film, quite a decent film overall, one of the better hooligan films I think.

I've lost one or two mates to girls, with one of them he just started staying in with her more and more which was very unusual for him and drinking less because she didn't like him as much when he was drunk. Which would be almost fair enough but whenever she spoke to me she'd say she was encouraging him to go out so whether she was just pretending or whether he was simply acting in a way he thought she'd like the end result was the same. Bit of a shame but such is life, they've since split up and I speak to her more than I do to him.
 
has happened to me and my friends recently. Mate got a new girl, went from going out with him almost everyday with the lads to not seeing him for a month. Brought it up with him and he questioned our loyalty to him which i found hilarious, but now he comes out with our group more but his gf is with us 90% of the time. He's 17, been going out with her for like 3 months and is already planning on kids and marriage :( . I don't see how people can't manage to see their best mates and gf in a decent balance, i manage to do it, so it can't be that hard.

And to top it off he comes crawling back when they have a fight or he wants something off us... good times :rolleyes:
 
optitech-uk said:
People come and go, even the ones who say they are by your side they really are not. I have been in this situation before. I let it pass and never spoke to the person again. I never trust nobody and that's what you have to learn.
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That's rather sad if you don't feel you can trust anyone, there's a limited cadre of people that I'd trust implicitly but there are a few at least.
 
I've got a mate like that, never used to do it, then met this one girl, been going out with her for two months, and they're engaged, always ask him out to play footie, "can't make it, doing this with becky...", "can't do it, the weathers bad" <- then see him in town with his mrs.

Funny thing is, me and my other mates all have girlfriends/fiances and we still go out and do stuff!

Can almost see the thumbprint on his forhead!
 
dmpoole said:
Except my daughters ex boyfriend.
He (presumably) had sex on tap, another home/family (he lived here for 4 months and didn't pay a penny) but the other week he told my daughter that his mates came first.

To be honest I'm glad he's gone.
Even though I welcomed him into my home he was a total loser who was always drunk.
Most nights my daughter would be sitting here dressed up ready to go out and he would phone saying he'd changed his mind and he was staying out with his mates.
I can't count the amount of times I've seen tears falling down her cheeks but for some reason girls tend to accept this crap.
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That is exactly why I won't have any boyfriend of my daughters freeloading off of us! It's bang out of order.
 
When you are in a decent relationship going to the pub to get leathered just somehow seems less important.

To the OP, if you went out to the pub, pulled and got invited back home with a lass would you tell her that you couldn't because your mate was out with you? Didn't think so, well, it's like that for him but he's already pulled.

However you look at it, going to the pub without the lure of the ladies just isn't the same.

You've already said that you don't have much in common, If you did you'd probably see more of your mate doing stuff other than going to the pub.

In my experience, the people who make the most fuss about being ditched for a girl are actually the first to vanish as soon as the get into a relationship, If they are mates, you'll see them again.
 
Sweetloaf said:
When you are in a decent relationship going to the pub to get leathered just somehow seems less important.

To the OP, if you went out to the pub, pulled and got invited back home with a lass would you tell her that you couldn't because your mate was out with you? Didn't think so, well, it's like that for him but he's already pulled.

However you look at it, going to the pub without the lure of the ladies just isn't the same.

You've already said that you don't have much in common, If you did you'd probably see more of your mate doing stuff other than going to the pub.

In my experience, the people who make the most fuss about being ditched for a girl are actually the first to vanish as soon as the get into a relationship, If they are mates, you'll see them again.
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What he said.
 
optitech-uk said:
Why is it rather sad??? Everyone I have come accross except family has never been trusted due to their bad name.

(I am on about people I acctually know here)
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I don't mean you are sad, I just find it rather sad (or perhaps unfortunate would be a better word) that you don't have anyone you would trust implicitly. If you only hang about with people who have a bad reputation then perhaps it isn't so surprising though.
 
semi-pro waster said:
I don't mean you are sad, I just find it rather sad (or perhaps unfortunate would be a better word) that you don't have anyone you would trust implicitly. If you only hang about with people who have a bad reputation then perhaps it isn't so surprising though.
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ah yes, I get what you mean. Sometimes I think it is partially my fault because I am so caring and people tend to walk over me. Slowly beginning to become a menie though!!! lol :D
 
Definitely have been here. I have one friend I pretty much never see, we invite him out all the time but he's always too busy or doesn't get back in touch, etc.

One of my other main friends had his first girlfriend a year or so ago and suddenly went like this, he always came out before, but we never saw him when he was dating. You guessed it, once they split up he was back. :p
 
optitech-uk said:
Why is it rather sad??? Everyone I have come accross except family has never been trusted due to their bad name.

(I am on about people I acctually know here)
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Thats a shame. I'd trust I'd say at least 8 friends with my life, and I imagine they would trust me (quite rightly) with theirs.

Or at least they had better ;)
 
tell me about it...

my best m8 for 5 years got a girlfriend and over the next 5 weeks i saw him less and less until it was like once a month. so from seeing a best m8 every day and going out to seeing him once a month and not knowing what to say becuase of a girl.

hmm i hate it, i hope i never do it to anyone
 
Ok, I'm curious now, have any of you guys that are moaning ever been in a serious, long term relationship or have you always been dumped after a few weeks/months because your "nagging girfriend" tells you that you don't pay them enough attention?

Maybe you should try a boyfriend........:)
 
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