Anyone else just really fed up right now?

I'm very happy at the moment, have a great missus and planning to start a family soon, we've just been approved for permanent residence in New Zealand so will be emigrating there in 4-5 months. Love my job and it pays well and all signs are that I will be able to do the same sort of thing when we move. Have £50k saved up and we're only 27 so hopeful of getting a nice place and being mortgage free by 35-40 as house prices in NZ are much more reasonable, will then be moving out of IT to either wedding photography or paragliding instructing (already do both of these in a limited capacity).

Really very little to grumble about :)
 
Kindof down, yeah. Could be winter related, or more likely just missing people. Living in China's cool and all, but I've had plenty of times recently when I could do with not being on the other side of the world - family health things and maintaining a very long distance relationship, for a start. My girlfriend's out to see me in a week, which is good, but will then be gone for many months...

Plus, uni here is rubbish :p And I need to summon up another 800 quid for tuition fees, which I don't have, and my visa doesn't allow me to work. Hum.

Plus, it's really damn cold, my heating's not working, and I've been ill for weeks.

Still, chin up!
 
Yes very fed up!

Things were starting to work out up until a few weeks ago when everything fell apart, now my sleeping problems have spiralled out of control effecting all areas of my life. Been told i am starting to suffer from depression and on Anti-Depressants to try and help me sleep!!

Woo woo!! :)
 
McDaniel said:
Yes very fed up!

Things were starting to work out up until a few weeks ago when everything fell apart, now my sleeping problems have spiralled out of control effecting all areas of my life. Been told i am starting to suffer from depression and on Anti-Depressants to try and help me sleep!!

Woo woo!! :)
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Get Nytol One A Night... it will knock you out... I sleep badly in general and need a little help sometimes so trust me on that one...

fifiov said:
Kindof down, yeah. Could be winter related, or more likely just missing people. Living in China's cool and all, but I've had plenty of times recently when I could do with not being on the other side of the world - family health things and maintaining a very long distance relationship, for a start. My girlfriend's out to see me in a week, which is good, but will then be gone for many months...

Plus, uni here is rubbish :p And I need to summon up another 800 quid for tuition fees, which I don't have, and my visa doesn't allow me to work. Hum.

Plus, it's really damn cold, my heating's not working, and I've been ill for weeks.

Still, chin up!
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Eek no wonder you're a bit down, that's harsh! Still all the best... try becoming a Kung Fu master in your spare time. :D
 
Kobrakai said:
Actually its closer to 24 years now... :p
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ditto that too! :D

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skippi90 said:
I'm stuck with working in a call centre for the forseeable future as there are no jobs available in the area at all. :(
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at the moment, a jobs a job. I keep looking for other jobs around here, but at the mo, there really is nothing. I guess im quite lucky in the fact i only live 2 mins from work, have no real commitments, live at home, get a reasonable pay cheque at the end of the month (more than enough for me to live on) and working for the NHS is a fairly (i hope!) safe bet.
 
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Compared to some people mines nothing lol.
But anyway, just fed up with the people I'm living with, especially one of them who decided to come back to the flat at 22:40 with his jeans round his ankles banging on the door. He seems to have gotten really drunk and wet himself... lovely! Won't go into details, but basically he's a *******.

Apart from that, missing my girlfriend like crazy as this is the first time we've been apart for a lengthy time so getting used to that is a bit weird. Then there's the need of a job during christmas as I have no money and can't do anything till the place I applied to gets back to me.

Just getting fed up of people in general I think.
 
I can't get a job to save my life.
I've recently become single and moved back in with the mother.
I drink too much.
I'm getting dangerously close to being addicted to more than 1 drug.
I can't see what I spent so long learning in education being useful, all the jobs that I can do aren't available at the moment.
I've had to sell quite a lot of my things to afford to do things.
It's saturday night and I'm on the internet and have been for most of the day.
My fish died.
 
I was fed up, but I'm quite bubbly and don't care about many things until I have to. Also I'm very optimistic. Difficult being optimistic.
 
I can't get a job.

I need a job for money to pay for some training/education.

I live with my mum.

I can't pay for my driving test. Even after paying £600 for driving lessons over the past year and a bit.

Only good thing is I don't have to worry about a woman, but then again who would want an unemployed ginger that lives with his mother. Pfft, I fail at life.
 
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You need to find something to focus on and take you out of the negative zone. :) Have you thought about taking up a sport - perhaps something unusual, or maybe a martial art? This will have the added bonus of increasing your social circle and your confidence :)

I've gone through a rough period before where I was drinking constantly and depressed/stressed by work. I just started getting out to random places, went cycling with friends and laid off the booze. Made me feel oodles better.
 
We need a box of lollipops. 25 kittens. And a camera. Licking lollies whilst inventing lolcats will cheer anybody up. Just me?
 
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