Lol, that would be good fun.
Anyone else just really fed up right now?
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Lol, that would be good fun.
Well, I decided to go out tonight with some mates and away from the problems that live in this house.
Was great to take my mind off things, didn't drink too much and met two girls and came home with two numbers.
Suprising how easy it can be to shift things out of your head.
Was great to take my mind off things, didn't drink too much and met two girls and came home with two numbers.
Suprising how easy it can be to shift things out of your head.
God this thread is depressing but I see nothing worth swinging from the rafters for.
My life isn't rosy at the moment mind, having just come back to this cold wet and dreary Country which I hate.
Living at home, being single and in a world of debt enough that every single penny of my earnings goes on it to try and clear it, to catch up even, as I'm behind on payments.
Job doesn't look the remotest bit secure at the moment either, so if that falls through then bankruptcy will be calling pretty soon after.
On top of that the half the family I do live with are the most 2 faced, snide, grudge bearing, dumb hypocrites I have the misfortune to be related to.
I wish I lived with Dad.
But still.... like I said, if I wallowed in it I'd be swinging in the breeze by now and I value life far too much to do that.
My life isn't rosy at the moment mind, having just come back to this cold wet and dreary Country which I hate.
Living at home, being single and in a world of debt enough that every single penny of my earnings goes on it to try and clear it, to catch up even, as I'm behind on payments.
Job doesn't look the remotest bit secure at the moment either, so if that falls through then bankruptcy will be calling pretty soon after.
On top of that the half the family I do live with are the most 2 faced, snide, grudge bearing, dumb hypocrites I have the misfortune to be related to.
I wish I lived with Dad.
But still.... like I said, if I wallowed in it I'd be swinging in the breeze by now and I value life far too much to do that.
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Nokinidea, get onto the people you owe and organise a fixed payment plan. They'll probably be able to reduce/wipe your arrears and interest charges which will allow you to get back on track again. Bankruptcy doesn't have to follow. I'm unemployed at the moment, receiving JSA and I'm using that to pay off my debts (not student loan). It's not much, but it keeps them from harassing me all day long.
Remember it's not what's wrong in your life which matters -- we all have blows -- it's how you approach the situation and what lessons you can learn from them that count.
It's never as bad as it seems. I know this sounds harsh, but until some of you lot learn to stop playing the victim you're never going to grow or be able to control your environment. No matter what anyone says, it's only ever in your mind and you can control that.
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@ benjo: Do you ever sleep boy?
Remember it's not what's wrong in your life which matters -- we all have blows -- it's how you approach the situation and what lessons you can learn from them that count.
It's never as bad as it seems. I know this sounds harsh, but until some of you lot learn to stop playing the victim you're never going to grow or be able to control your environment. No matter what anyone says, it's only ever in your mind and you can control that.
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@ benjo: Do you ever sleep boy?
Maybe my post wasn't that clear, Although "my world" as said, isn't the least bit rosy. I don't actually worry about it one bit. 
Which is kinda what this thread needs.
There is always something around the corner that you cant see coming, sometimes it's bad, sometimes it's good, you'll never know until you start walking.
The reason I am behind on payments and also the reason I have just come back to the UK is that I have been living it up (on credit of course) in the Maldives....
So it's not all bad
Which is kinda what this thread needs.There is always something around the corner that you cant see coming, sometimes it's bad, sometimes it's good, you'll never know until you start walking.
The reason I am behind on payments and also the reason I have just come back to the UK is that I have been living it up (on credit of course)
in the Maldives....So it's not all bad
Fubsy look on the bright side (no pun intended
Pfft that's only because I have way too much time on my hands, if I had a life I'd be much worse.
I'm fed up, my roof is leaking and water is coming out for my light fixtures onto my bed. I'm using a measuring jug to catch the water when it rains, but my landlady doesn't seem bothered. I'm going to slap her when she gets back.
Reading this thread makes me realise how lucky I am and how thankful I am for my life.
Two pieces of advise:
- I have said it before and as much as you may disagree with what I say on initial reaction, stop listening to bands like Radiohead because they don't do you any good. Its fun and tempting to listen to music in the melanchonic emptiness it creates, but its not productive. I have been far happier since I accepted such music was having a negative impact on my life and stopped listening to it. Try it.
- It sounds silly, but one of the best ways to be happy is to simply look in the mirror and say 'I'm happy
'. No really, it does work. My good friend used to tell me the best way to live a happy life is to realise there is no point in feeling overly sad, its just time wasting. After a year or so of trying, I have understood this mentallity. It really is easy to dictate your emotions... if you can be strong enough to accomplish it.
And nawwwwwwww big hug to all those who are sad *hug* [/gay]
Two pieces of advise:
- I have said it before and as much as you may disagree with what I say on initial reaction, stop listening to bands like Radiohead because they don't do you any good. Its fun and tempting to listen to music in the melanchonic emptiness it creates, but its not productive. I have been far happier since I accepted such music was having a negative impact on my life and stopped listening to it. Try it.
- It sounds silly, but one of the best ways to be happy is to simply look in the mirror and say 'I'm happy
'. No really, it does work. My good friend used to tell me the best way to live a happy life is to realise there is no point in feeling overly sad, its just time wasting. After a year or so of trying, I have understood this mentallity. It really is easy to dictate your emotions... if you can be strong enough to accomplish it.And nawwwwwwww big hug to all those who are sad *hug* [/gay]
I've actually not listened to Radiohead for about 2 months Apart from when at friends houses, or turning up on random on PC/MP3 player.
Actually listening to Razorlight, Killers and Kings Of Leon the most since the last time you posted that advice
Apart from when at friends houses, or turning up on random on PC/MP3 player.Actually listening to Razorlight, Killers and Kings Of Leon the most since the last time you posted that advice
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Two pieces of advise:
- stop listening to bands like Radiohead because they don't do you any good.
- simply look in the mirror and say 'I'm happy
Ahahahahahaha look me in the face and tell me your not joking
I've actually not listened to Radiohead for about 2 months
Actually listening to Razorlight, Killers and Kings Of Leon the most since the last time you posted that advice
Have you noticed any difference in your attitude? I speak from the experiences of 4 people, including myself.
I'm not joking, sorry!Ahahahahahaha look me in the face and tell me your not joking
you let music influence the way you feel..
Upbeat songs make you feel perky, angry songs make you angry, sad songs make you sad...
People use music as a way of releasing their own frustrations at times. Sometimes music can enhance and expand these emotions.... if your not careful
What you said is sort of true, my music choices are influenced by my mood.
You then stay in this circle of being in a down mood as the music really isn't helping.
If I switch from something like Snow Patrol - Run, to something a bit more lively and up beat, I'll get into the mood of that track.
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you let music influence the way you feel..
According to our ambulance crew the band that are playing most often when they attend young suicides is Radiohead.
If I'm honest I haven't noticed any change in the way I feel, it's as if I have a natural dreary approach to everything but then out of nowhere comes a few days (sometimes weeks) of perkiness and smiles etc, but it doesn't ever last too long.
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im always fed up tbh