About 3 years ago I met a girl at uni who followed me round and tried to get me to go out with her, when I declined she turned a bit mental. She would randomly ignore me and then demand attention, but then after a few months she settled down and we became friends. After a few months of being friends I realised I actually quite liked her, and she admitted to liking me. We went out on a few dates, and being as we were already good friends it didn't take me long to fall for her. Then one day she decided that was that and refused to talk to me about why, she then told everyone nothing had every happened and started spreadind poison about me round all our friends (and some of them believed her).
Fast forward to today and I have been invited to a friends birthday at a club up in town. I check on facebook to see who is going and the first name that pops up is the previously mentioned girl. Now if there were a load of people going I wouldn't have much problem with it, because it would be easy to avoid her. However, so far only 5 people have said that they are going and he has only invited 15 anyway. so there would be no way to escape her.
I still think about this girl a lot, the way it just ended with no answers and all the lies made it very difficult to move on and made me very suspicous of other girls I tried to date - so I am worried about how I would feel being forced to interact with her, but also what she would do (since she seems to be unhinged). The guy having the party is not really a good friend (I haven't seen him since July) but a couple of my good friends have said they might go.
Should I risk it?
Fast forward to today and I have been invited to a friends birthday at a club up in town. I check on facebook to see who is going and the first name that pops up is the previously mentioned girl. Now if there were a load of people going I wouldn't have much problem with it, because it would be easy to avoid her. However, so far only 5 people have said that they are going and he has only invited 15 anyway. so there would be no way to escape her.
I still think about this girl a lot, the way it just ended with no answers and all the lies made it very difficult to move on and made me very suspicous of other girls I tried to date - so I am worried about how I would feel being forced to interact with her, but also what she would do (since she seems to be unhinged). The guy having the party is not really a good friend (I haven't seen him since July) but a couple of my good friends have said they might go.
Should I risk it?
