OOoooo a girl thread!

I'd invite her, I got invited to my a friend of my girlfriends parents birthday party about 2 weeks after meeting her parents. Que a whole lot of threats about breaking her heart yada yada yada something about death... needless to say I'm still with her 2.5 years on. Theres no harm in asking her, she can say no :P her choice! It'll give you someone to talk to and remind her there will be loads of different people there so that she doesn't feel a bit of a spare part!

Good luck with the date btw!

Aero
 
Hmm.. my personal choice would be no. I'm on a third date with a girl tomorrow night and in the same situation I probably wouldn't invite her if my family were there. HOWEVER, this is because I know what my family are like, they'd be asking awkward questions all night! :p . If your family is better for this sort of thing then it may be okay. Chances are SOMEONE will make it awkward at some point though, you don't want to scare her off!

It also depends how far you get on the second date. We've kissed and had some cuddling/holding hands stuff even after 2 dates (though to be fair, both were very long!) and have been texting most days too. If you get this far (or further...) on this second date then she might be comfortable enough to come :) .

Remember though, you have a life outside of her, she needs to see you have value (friends, a good social life, etc) when she's not around too :) .

Edit: Also noticed we're the same age too, so I guess it might be more relevant now! How old is the girl? The one I'm seeing is 22.
 
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Shes 19...so a year younger than me, shes not a typical screamy teenager though, shes mature for her age.

We've kissed when I walked her home the other night, about it though...and we've been texting every other day really.
 
Girls point of view, waaaaaay too soon. I imagine it'll just be a daunting experience, she barely knows you yet, take your time :)
 
i say just broach the subject lightly, bring it up in general conversation like:

'oh, yeah im off to my cuz's bday this weekend, should be good... oh... infact, do you want to come along?? but then again, i know what my family is like... maybe its not such a good idea! lol'

something like that, make a slight joke about it and then she can react accordingly... i know my family like to take the **** a bit too much, so i would be more concerned about them embaressing me more than the lady being overwhelmed by them!
 
What I'd personally do is see how the 2nd date goes see if it's developing more than the 1st one and if you feel that there's definitely "something" mention it casually... "what you up to this weekend?" - she'll reply probably along the lines of... "not much really..." (I know this because if she likes you she'll hopefully want to see you again....) and then she'll ask you the same thing, and that's where you mention the party... in a very matter of fact or casual manner suggest that "..... if you wanna come you'd be more than welcome to...." and carry on the conversation and gauge her reaction, if she shows an interest just warn her.. "... though I have to warn you that there will be some of my crazy family no doubt with their mind set on embarrassing me...." or something silly like that. Don't load it up or put too much importance or pressure on it, and don't make her feel bad at turning you down either, take it slow and steady. :)
 
Phate said:
Shes 19...so a year younger than me, shes not a typical screamy teenager though, shes mature for her age.

We've kissed when I walked her home the other night, about it though...and we've been texting every other day really.
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My ex was 19, we broke up just before Xmas after over 2 and a half years! She was mature in some ways, and immature in others. Was a great learning experience I think, so no regrets. But my god this new girl is great so far :D .

I kissed her towards the end of the second date, but there was an obvious attraction before. All started by just getting her number on new years eve (never met her before). "He who tries, wins" :) .
 
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