Bit of help...this saturday.

Yeah, I wasn't thinking clearly. Hopeful to say that I think I'm over that..stage..now, but the therapy is mandatory, and the drugs should help. There is no way to explain just how it felt. I know the associations with suicide, and I never ever thought I'd be crazy enough to get that far, but I was. If you're ever feeling low all I can really do is urge you to seek help.

Sorry for derailing your thread Neoni.

Thanks SS.
 
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platypus said:
Yeah, I wasn't thinking clearly. I'm over that..stage..now, but the therapy is mandatory, and the drugs should help.

Sorry for derailing your thread Neoni.
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No man, dont worry im enjoying the conversation its all good, ive made my mind up for saturday now anyway.

So... you may carry on dont mind me :)
 
Neoni said:
No man, dont worry im enjoying the conversation its all good, ive made my mind up for saturday now anyway.

So... you may carry on dont mind me :)
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Not a whole lot more I can say really :).

Therapy is, weird to say the least. It's not as...theraputic as I expected.

Depression is the most debilatating thing you can imagine.
 
platypus said:
Not a whole lot more I can say really :).

Therapy is, weird to say the least. It's not as...theraputic as I expected.

Depression is the most debilatating thing you can imagine.
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Well from what you say, it sounds to me like its all about your actual movitation in yourself to get out of the depression, rather than the treatment having the greater impact. it'll all work out, but it takes time, time is a great healer as they say.
 
Neoni said:
Well from what you say, it sounds to me like its all about your actual movitation in yourself to get out of the depression, rather than the treatment having the greater impact. it'll all work out, but it takes time, time is a great healer as they say.
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Thats all it takes, sadly. And it's an utterly horrible place to be and most of the time you feel absolutely nothing. Then occasionally you feel so utterly **** you have no idea what to do. That will in time get less and less.

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I dont think I could imagine it, I hope you improve.
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Thanks, I will. It will just take an awfully long time.
 
do something totally different :)

We're going quad biking on saturday.... she doesn't know yet ;) although I know it's something she's been wanting to do,
 
Why do you not cook a really nice random meal? Have you ever made sushi or something random with her before? You could involve her in it and have it as your evening entertainment if you have the time/space.

Not too sure exactly what type of things you enjoy doing, but maybe try and make sure its focused on things she really likes to show you care about her. Does she like walking/sports/museums/theatre/cinema/whatever?

Good luck and I hope you get through. Then after valentines talk to her, really about everything. Normally arguments not being resolved fully by either party will lead a downward spiral and destroy the relationship. If you get the problems you have out you can then at least see the problem and start to work through/around/past it.
 
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